MarkSeanDavis17:
Can't say I'm really surprised at the original poster's remarks. Not because it's true, because it's all about how you carry yourself and interact with others. I got into the kink just over a month ago and have had an incredible IRL experience, as well as a handful of meaningful, and flirty DMs with others. Treat people with respect, show an interest in what they're into besides our mutual kink, and LISTEN LISTEN LISTEN. Establishing trust and clear communication go a long way. It's not enough to have a certain body type, you should also be a decent person. Anyway, my 2 cents.
Can't say I'm really surprised at the original poster's remarks. Not because it's true, because it's all about how you carry yourself and interact with others. I got into the kink just over a month ago and have had an incredible IRL experience, as well as a handful of meaningful, and flirty DMs with others. Treat people with respect, show an interest in what they're into besides our mutual kink, and LISTEN LISTEN LISTEN. Establishing trust and clear communication go a long way. It's not enough to have a certain body type, you should also be a decent person. Anyway, my 2 cents.
That's pretty much what this whole mess boiled down to. Doesn't matter what you look like - if you are a jerk, it's silly to expect people will want to be with you. It's why you often see jerks flaunt things like money, looks, and status as a reason to be with them. They know they don't have anything else to offer.
2 months