BookWormAndFeedist:
Since I found out that I'm into feedism, I knew I loved to see others eat a ton of food, get stuffed, enjoy themselves and eventually gain weight.
However, more recently I've also been curious about mutual gaining. I still prefer to be the feeder as I think it's very romantic and sexy to make someone happy with food, indulgence, soft encouraging and then the needed physical contact. But when I consider the sharing component of mutual gaining, I find it just as romantic and cozy.
My problem is that I think I don't have what it takes to be a good gaining partner. First, I can't eat much and I can't keep going if I'm full.
I like other people to overeat and keep eating so long as that gives them pleasure, but maybe I wouldn't get the same pleasure.
Secondly, my body is not designed to gain weight due to its extremely high metabolism. I reckon my stubborn 88 lbs/40 kilos could be frustrating to my partner.
I'd like to try it because I feel I could truly enjoy its dynamic, but if I don't like eating much and can't gain weight, doesn't that defeat the point?
Would I be better off as only a feeder?
Up to you. There are a lot of feeders and gainers that struggle to put on weight. If you think you have the patience for it, then by all means go do the thing.
But if you want it quick and easy, then mutual gaining is not for you.
