MarkSeanDavis17:
I've been with one FA and we spent weeks getting to know each other first, establishing trust and respect. Then when we met, the physical things felt natural and we had established trust and communication. If we didn't get along so well, there's no chance we'd meet and continue with fun times together.
Stevia:
Exactly! I definitely think that this is how it’s supposed to go anyways.
Munchies:
A lot of people are ashamed of this kink. And I get it. I do. But I see a lot of FAs (and feeders) who try to keep that part of them a secret so they don't lose whatever relationship they want to be in.
Do not do this. This will not end well.
Instead, do what Mark does: Take the time to get to know the other person, build trust, and communicate well to establish mutual trust.
Maybe you aren't right for each other. And that's okay. There are over 8 billion people in the world. Statistically speaking, you can find at least a couple of people that you vibe well with depending on how you go about things.
Enas:
The market pool drastically shrinks if you just filter through incompetent people, narcissists, etc :/
But whats even more importand is how much the person is socializing, and getting to meet new people.
Btw that doesn't mean not to try, its actually more of a "make sure you socialize plenty!".
I've been with one FA and we spent weeks getting to know each other first, establishing trust and respect. Then when we met, the physical things felt natural and we had established trust and communication. If we didn't get along so well, there's no chance we'd meet and continue with fun times together.
Stevia:
Exactly! I definitely think that this is how it’s supposed to go anyways.
Munchies:
A lot of people are ashamed of this kink. And I get it. I do. But I see a lot of FAs (and feeders) who try to keep that part of them a secret so they don't lose whatever relationship they want to be in.
Do not do this. This will not end well.
Instead, do what Mark does: Take the time to get to know the other person, build trust, and communicate well to establish mutual trust.
Maybe you aren't right for each other. And that's okay. There are over 8 billion people in the world. Statistically speaking, you can find at least a couple of people that you vibe well with depending on how you go about things.
Enas:
The market pool drastically shrinks if you just filter through incompetent people, narcissists, etc :/
But whats even more importand is how much the person is socializing, and getting to meet new people.
Btw that doesn't mean not to try, its actually more of a "make sure you socialize plenty!".
Shrinking your market pool isn't necessarily a bad thing. The truth is that there are only so many people with whom you will click well. Not filtering your options gives the illusion of having many options, but you are more likely to find scores of people you don't mesh well with.
When you shrink your market pool, it may become harder to find people who want you, but when you do, it's more likely you'll find someone who wants you as you are.
With that said, to my fellow FAs who are going around telling people you want them because they are fat, you are telling people that you only want a superficial relationship based on appearance. If that's your jam, more power to you. But if that's not what you want, then y'all need to do some soul searching.
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