MarkSeanDavis17:
I've been with one FA and we spent weeks getting to know each other first, establishing trust and respect. Then when we met, the physical things felt natural and we had established trust and communication. If we didn't get along so well, there's no chance we'd meet and continue with fun times together.
Stevia:
Exactly! I definitely think that this is how it’s supposed to go anyways.
Munchies:
A lot of people are ashamed of this kink. And I get it. I do. But I see a lot of FAs (and feeders) who try to keep that part of them a secret so they don't lose whatever relationship they want to be in.
Do not do this. This will not end well.
Instead, do what Mark does: Take the time to get to know the other person, build trust, and communicate well to establish mutual trust.
Maybe you aren't right for each other. And that's okay. There are over 8 billion people in the world. Statistically speaking, you can find at least a couple of people that you vibe well with depending on how you go about things.
Stevia:
Your advice is as golden as always! You had pretty much emphasized what Mark said and I can relate to some of what you experienced as well. Because I’m sure it’s something that many fellow FAs would think the same, or should! Lol.
I just hope that you weren’t trying to criticize me for agreeing with Mark here. 😅
Nah, I was addressing the broader FA base. You good, love.
The common advice I hear is that you should give up on finding someone who shares your kink because of how niche it is. Instead, some people recommend dating a fat person outside of the kink, never tell them, and just admire them in secret.
I'm not saying dating a non-feedist is bad. But if you are going to do that, you have to be honest and value them for more than their body. If you don't, you are setting yourself up for heartbreak.
