Feeder/Feedee

Well! FantasyFeeder is a place where imagination and appetite collide but I’m curious how different people actually experience feederism beyond the surface. For some, it’s pure fantasy, control, indulgence, growth. For others, it’s deeply emotional, about care, trust, and vulnerability.

So I’m asking:

What does feederism truly mean to you emotionally, mentally, or even spiritually?

Is it about fantasy roleplay, real-life connection, power exchange… or something else entirely?

Has your relationship with it changed over time?

I’m especially interested in hearing from people who see this as more than just a kink who feel something deeper when they engage with this community or lifestyle. Let’s unpack the fantasy a little. 😉😘🫶🏽

Okay, this is deep and I LIKE IT. 😉

I’ll be the first to take a swing at it.

I like feederism for me as it is indulgence, hedonism that I typically cannot show externally in my routine day-to-day life. I also love the connection on here with a small group of like minded people. It’s validating to see and interact with others in this space, liking bodies and bodies changing like this, and having it be okay.

How has it changed? When I was young it was way more surface level urges: physical, fantasy, “oooh awe” fancy videos. Now, it’s a more a blend of wanting connections, exchanging appreciation and encouragement for others and myself more equally, rather than one sided, and heck, even caring. But, its a slow process and now Im settling just being happy with being lightly involved. I do struggle with my own involvement, but now accept that I may need to do less, to be in it more. 🫶