Fat experiences

Friends/ family/ coworkers commenting on weight gain

ObeseCleopatra:
It's a daily thing lmao


Never underestimate the power of setting and establishing boundaries. It's what I had to do with my mother who used to do the same thing to me. It can be scary at first. But eventually the get with the program.

I get being concerned about health and quality of life, but there are ways you can go about doing that while also being respectful.
3 weeks

Friends/ family/ coworkers commenting on weight gain

I'm petty AF with family members who tease me more than once. One off comment? Sure whatever, ha ha. Come at me again and I'm asking you about whether this 3rd marriage of yours is really "the one." Hell, I'll go after someone for being a shitty parent. That shuts them up real fast.
3 weeks

Friends/ family/ coworkers commenting on weight gain

MarkSeanDavis17:
I'm petty AF with family members who tease me more than once. One off comment? Sure whatever, ha ha. Come at me again and I'm asking you about whether this 3rd marriage of yours is really "the one." Hell, I'll go after someone for being a shitty parent. That shuts them up real fast.


Oh to be a fly on the wall in that moment.
3 weeks

Friends/ family/ coworkers commenting on weight gain

Chubbypup:
I had a guy yell at me in the drive thru the other day "what are you ordering the whole menu?"
It was busy and there was a car in front of me, but I wonder if he would've said that 60 pounds ago?


You should have replied no but great idea I will
3 weeks

Friends/ family/ coworkers commenting on weight gain

The only comments I've heard are:

Do you want the rest of this?

Maybe someone will have three (hotdogs)...

Why don't you eat that?

Do you want this other donut?

Do you want anything else?

Nothing about the visible belly outline through shirt... One shirt, the button right around my belly button keeps coming unfastened. Another gets snug if I sit down at the desk in it.
1 week

Friends/ family/ coworkers commenting on weight gain

Never had friends say anything, but they always assume that I will eat the most, like when we go to a buffet and I stop, they will look surprised that im not getting more! Or if we have met up, and if there are leftovers, tgere is one friend who will pass everything to me, making comments like "I know you'll eat it all" lol

Ive had more interesting interactions with the public, like going to a Toby Carvery, and they immediately assume i want the king sized plate and all the meats lol i mean i do but still haha
1 week

Friends/ family/ coworkers commenting on weight gain

Starfish:
Never had friends say anything, but they always assume that I will eat the most, like when we go to a buffet and I stop, they will look surprised that im not getting more! Or if we have met up, and if there are leftovers, tgere is one friend who will pass everything to me, making comments like "I know you'll eat it all" lol

Ive had more interesting interactions with the public, like going to a Toby Carvery, and they immediately assume i want the king sized plate and all the meats lol i mean i do but still haha


Do the suggest it in positive way? Has it always been like that that?
1 week

Friends/ family/ coworkers commenting on weight gain

Starfish:
Never had friends say anything, but they always assume that I will eat the most, like when we go to a buffet and I stop, they will look surprised that im not getting more! Or if we have met up, and if there are leftovers, tgere is one friend who will pass everything to me, making comments like "I know you'll eat it all" lol

Ive had more interesting interactions with the public, like going to a Toby Carvery, and they immediately assume i want the king sized plate and all the meats lol i mean i do but still haha

Neosoul1:
Do the suggest it in positive way? Has it always been like that that?


Yeah its never been in a negative way, like if i tried to say no, the friend would push and say stuff like this food needs to be eaten lol to be fair this was before i even began as a feedee as I was always a foodie as well, so i loved to eat lol
1 week

Friends/ family/ coworkers commenting on weight gain

So no comments by me or my daughter that I picked up from the airport last night. She’s gotten quite heavier since I last saw her last summer and so have I. Think her fiancée likes her gains….. as she’s close to about 230 lbs. or so now I’d guess…. Don’t think discussing our weight will be an issue this coming week.😏
6 days

Friends/ family/ coworkers commenting on weight gain

Omg! 😍🥰😘😇😎🥳🤩. Would she be down for sharing some photos with you on here???
6 days
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