Lifestyle tips

Hi All.

When you first decided to start gaining and getting huge, how did you overcome your fears and concerns about getting huge? I'm just starting my gaining journey, hoping to become bedbound and spend the rest of my days eating. I'm struggling with completely letting go due to fears of being so huge, the obvious health issues that come with it, how family and friends and coworkers react to my increasing size. I'm also by myself so I have fears of becoming immobile alone.

How did you overcome those fears when you first started actively gaining? Especially as you got bigger?

My advise is to take a deep breath and consider two things; gaining weight is naughty to _us_ and not to other people, we feel shame because to us it’s sexually deviant, to most people, the act of gaining weight or other people gaining weight is not like that. To put it in our terms we understand it’s like seeing a close family member gain weight (it’s not sexual, hopefully) or same sex people gaining (implying straight people same principle vice versa)

And concern about people’s reaction is related to it fact but unless you’re friends and family are rude people in general they won’t say or do anything to hurt you, if anything they’d say it out of concern for your well being.

In my opinion it's all about taking it slow.

Start with a small gain, see how you feel about it and the way it impacts your life (or doesn't) and go from there.

Much easier to be okay with getting huge when you do it one step at a time.

Something to keep in mind is planning and reasonable goal setting. You also need to make peace with life happening.

If you're afraid of getting immobile alone, then you need to do two things. The first is figure out how fat are you comfortable getting by yourself. The second is finding a feeder that is enthusiastically supportive and will be your life partner.

Some fears and concerns are worth ignoring like people judging you for gaining weight. However, logistical concerns should be taken seriously and addressed.