ArcticVixen:
Unfortunately, you have guys like that who mask themselves as "nice" to lure in victims. I've been groomed by a man in his forties who was those macho types and acted nice at first.
Yes. And if i am to work towards a solution to that i would say, be interogative! It might very well be something that people aren't very comfortable with doing, but i think its the only solution to that. :/
Even when you sent me your horny messages in a DM on my old account I thought beforehand you wanted to have a casual conversation instead of that. It's sometimes hard to recognize red flags when predators hide them very well.
That wasn't kind of me, though i remember there was unclear communication on what you were not okay with. I really should have asked follow up questions to clear that up, however.
Having said that, its not a good example. Since hornyness doesnt go away on will, the question then becomes what does one do about it. And someone might hide it as an attempt to not shove it into the other person's faces, thats not predatory. Putting up a "nice person" facade to lure people in, is.
We could definetely have a casual conversation, also!! (See the third paragraph on my profile description! XD)
