Metalbear:
My partner and I have been together for a little over 6,5 years. My relationship with food had always been difficult because of my abusive father. I'm trans (FTM) and I've been on T for three years. This has made my belly nice and soft and my girlfriend lately admitted she's attracted to bigger guys, but never dared saying it because of my issues with food and my body.
I'm attracted to bigger people as well and my own body is now in a way attractive to me. I've gained weight and muscle and I want to be bigger, but I want full support from my girlfriend. Maybe even in a feederism type of way. I don't want to force anything upon my girlfriend of course, but I'm having difficulties to open up about the subject and to speak up about my desires.
Anyone that went through something similar and has any tips for me to get the question out and how to word it? Being bigger just feels like it would make me feel more masculine and just so much better.
I'm not sure how to word myself here, but alas.
Munchies:
Honestly? I'd tell her what you posted here.
If she enjoys bigger men, and it will help you with your healing journey, she'll probably be down to clown. Just be honest.
munchies' advice is right on. you two obviously have a solid, strong relationship, being together that long. just keep the conversation going on what you are feeling, and what you are both finding attractive, and see where it goes.
my partner was into fat guys, we met thru wooplus. after we got to know each other well enough, i shared my interest in feedism with her. i made sure she knew it wasn't that important, there was no pressure for her. it took a bit, but she started to see the aspects of it that she thought were interesting, and we went from there. i don't think she'd describe herself as a feeder or feedist, but we've worked it into our lives and play over the 4 years we've been together.
best of luck!
