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TheManOfQNA:
I want to apologize if the title or subject is offensive. I'm a black man, not sure if that makes it less offensive.

I have a special opportunity to work in California and I'm excited about the probability of meeting a woman.

This is just me, I have always been crazy about overweight white women. I've only been with 2, while they were on vacation in Jamaica.

I know Hollywood doesn't portray how many overweight people is in America. I know there are complex social stigmas around obesity. I know I should treat each woman as an individual.

But with that said.
Does anyone have anything to say ?

TheManOfQNA:
I want to apologize if the title or subject is offensive. I'm a black man, not sure if that makes it less offensive.

I have a special opportunity to work in California and I'm excited about the probability of meeting a woman.

This is just me, I have always been crazy about overweight white women. I've only been with 2, while they were on vacation in Jamaica.

I know Hollywood doesn't portray how many overweight people is in America. I know there are complex social stigmas around obesity. I know I should treat each woman as an individual.

But with that said.
Does anyone have anything to say ?

Munchies:
Black woman here.

Black men being with fat white women is practically a stereotype. No one will care. No one will bat an eye.

What you should be doing is focusing on how to be a good boyfriend.

Finickyfeedee:
If you want a relationship where you actively engage in feedism, you should probably look on online dating platforms and advertise your preference there.

If you just want to date a fat white woman without doing anything unusual in the relationship, just approach her like you would any other woman, and tell her you think she’s beautiful like you would any other woman. There’s no need to do anything special.

Watch out because there are some white women in the US who fetishize black men and can be very disrespectful and objectifying. It’s important that you’re being treated well in the relationship, too.

TheManOfQNA:
I want to apologize if the title or subject is offensive. I'm a black man, not sure if that makes it less offensive.

I have a special opportunity to work in California and I'm excited about the probability of meeting a woman.

This is just me, I have always been crazy about overweight white women. I've only been with 2, while they were on vacation in Jamaica.

I know Hollywood doesn't portray how many overweight people is in America. I know there are complex social stigmas around obesity. I know I should treat each woman as an individual.

But with that said.
Does anyone have anything to say ?

Munchies:
Black woman here.

Black men being with fat white women is practically a stereotype. No one will care. No one will bat an eye.

What you should be doing is focusing on how to be a good boyfriend.

TheManOfQNA:
Thank you for responding.

I've heard about and understood treating a woman like a human being. Don't objectify her.

In a place like California, when and how is best to tell a woman my outside-of-the-box appreciation for her beauty ?

TheManOfQNA:
I want to apologize if the title or subject is offensive. I'm a black man, not sure if that makes it less offensive.

I have a special opportunity to work in California and I'm excited about the probability of meeting a woman.

This is just me, I have always been crazy about overweight white women. I've only been with 2, while they were on vacation in Jamaica.

I know Hollywood doesn't portray how many overweight people is in America. I know there are complex social stigmas around obesity. I know I should treat each woman as an individual.

But with that said.
Does anyone have anything to say ?

Munchies:
Black woman here.

Black men being with fat white women is practically a stereotype. No one will care. No one will bat an eye.

What you should be doing is focusing on how to be a good boyfriend.

TheManOfQNA:
Thank you for responding.

I've heard about and understood treating a woman like a human being. Don't objectify her.

In a place like California, when and how is best to tell a woman my outside-of-the-box appreciation for her beauty ?

Munchies:
...

You are a black man who is into fat white women. This is so common it's practically a meme. You are overthinking it,

Now, do you plan on fattening her up? Because that's a different conversation. But if you are just a fat admirer, it's not even weird.

Enas:
I think it boils down to two things:

First, make sure she is a competent person. (A heck of a lot of peopel aren't competent at all i think, so thats something to be concerned about.)

Then, just be blunt about it, but at the same time, make sure to not get her uncomfortable. Put the things you wanna communicate to her i a proper order, from first to last.