Lifestyle tips

I met this woman not so long ago on this dating app, and in our first couple of conversations she told me she liked being fed and gaining weight, saying she gets off on it.

Now i have heard about this kink before, but i must admit at first i was a bit close minded. I didnt judge her at all or anything, but i had a certain idea of what a relationship of two or more people with this kink would be like. Thankfully, the next night i researched all about it, and while doing that, found this website.

Now i have always thought i was a kink positive person, but i also might be on the asexual spectrum. Its really hard for me to understand this kink since i dont feel any attraction spesifically to fat on peoples bodies (im also chubby though so i do not judge anyone based on their weight.)

This woman told me, that this kink wouldnt be the most important part of the relationship, and also that she didnt want to gain to the point of immobility.

While i do not gain any sexual gratification from feeding someone, i do usually take on the more nurturing role in any relationship, so feeding someone wouldnt really be a problem.

I would appreciate any and all tips or experiences, if there are people who have this kink who have dated someone without it.

What can work is to offload some part of the kink into fantasy and roleplay, while still keeping part of it in reality, so to not cut it off completely, but still keep it manageable. Try to explore whether she likes the teasing part of it, or if it works if you occasionally feed her even if she does not gain much, or at all. Or giving her belly rubs, etc. etc. Not everything in this kink is about becoming extremely and impractically big. There are many foreplay / roleplay aspects of it.