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Mawau   United States
Joined 2 years
Mawau:
Why do people lie?

Miachu:
where Is this aimed at haha

Munchies:
I've seen this user make a number of posts today where he whines and pisses on other's happiness. He targeted one specific user before she clapped back. Now he seems to be complaining in general



you seem so in love. I am so glad this is happening. You people come here everyday. I can go weeks and it's not different. Don't self reflect or anything, just judge and lie and blow smoke.
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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
Mawau:
Why do people lie?

Miachu:
where Is this aimed at haha

Munchies:
I've seen this user make a number of posts today where he whines and pisses on other's happiness. He targeted one specific user before she clapped back. Now he seems to be complaining in general

Mawau:
you seem so in love. I am so glad this is happening. You people come here everyday. I can go weeks and it's not different. Don't self reflect or anything, just judge and lie and blow smoke.


I am in love! My partner is great. I do talk about him a lot on here, so you've probably noticed.

I'm curious about something. Are you refeed?
2 years

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HappyBigBelly   United States
Joined 12 years
My wife and I are totally in love with each other’s bellies and would have it no other way ;-)
2 years

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Glitter Jelly   Canada
Joined 2 years
AnorexicPretty:
I have a very recent history with anorexia, in fact I just started recovering about a year and a half ago. I am not fat, at least not yet, but I did gain 45 pounds in the last year. So I can say something about the gaining experience at least.

For me, it is a wonderful feeling of having a real, physical body. I enjoy moving, I feel no pain when I sit, and my mind isn’t occupied with poisonous anorexic thoughts. I love my curves - and I have some curves finally, I am finally successful in my romantic life, dating polyamorously, with very lovely men at my side who love me for who I am, and not for my model-like emaciated „perfect“ non-body.

Gaining is quite difficult for me. I learned to eat huge amounts by now but my metabolism is - despite many, many years of anorexia - high as f***. So I need to use tricks like heavy cream to gain at all. But I love the feeling of being alive that I have now. And I think gaining more will give me even more of this wonderful feeling. I do not regret gaining this pounds at all, and the only thing that I mourn is the fact that it is more difficult to find Gothic Lolita clothing and short shorts in bigger sizes and from a previous gaining experience (yeah I had a relapse, that’s anorexia, it never leaves completely because it is actually born of the wish to control the uncontrollable world, and I have still to reach the weight I once already was at) I know that I am now in the highest size range of my favorite brands. Not impossible, though. I am also adept at sewing so if I can’t buy it then I can make it. But still, cute clothes are more available in smaller sizes. Sadly.


I'm so sad about outgrowing most of my lolita coords. Even if I manage to lose a little, realistically the skirts will never fit me anymore. They were already tight when I was much thinner (my waist was 26 inch around and not it's at least 30 inch, I don't want to check it freaks me out).
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Bellyempire   United States
Joined 14 years
feels like im in route to it. In high school I was an athlete and scrawny. tall and at best i weight 130lbs. Ran all the distance events in track and cross country was even recruited for the lower college levels. Never an elite level athlete but well above average in terms of abilities. Most people arent capable of even running a mile and I was doing 3 or more on a daily basis. fast forward almost 20 years later and I am gaining weight. hovering around 180 lbs. 190 is considered overweight for military standards so i am fighting that off.
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SumoSized   United States
Joined 1 year
Gaining weight has improved my body image so much, I absolutely hated seeing my ribs, and my arms and legs looked so vascular it was off putting. I feel so much more confident and comfortable in my own body and it has only felt better with every pound I put on. It really just feels like a permanent weighted blanket and I love it
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FeedTheFatty   United States
Joined 6 months
As I've gotten fatter, it's made me want to lift more weights. I don't want to lose my fat, in fact I want to add 30-50 more lbs. I want some muscle to have the strength to be able to carry my future blubber. So strangely enough, getting fat has actually influenced me to get in better shape physically lol
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MottiF   Israel
Joined 8 years
Noname078:

Hi!
I’m very interested in hearing people’s experience going from thin to fat.
I’m mostly interested in hearing about this from a female perspective, but if there are men/non binary that want to share their experience, that’s okay too!

I myself am very conflicted about gaining (I have a history with anorexia. If you want to know more, I suggest reading my other forum posts or sending me a message).
However the idea of gaining and being fat has a certain allure for me. I would like to hear more about how your mindset changed when you became fat/are getting fat(ter). Are there any gainers/feedees that didn’t like their body when they were skinny but now love their fatter body? Did it feel freeing to no longer worry about what you eat or that people might notice your belly?

I’m also interested in hearing your experience if you regret gaining or miss being skinny.
I just want to try and understand what it would mean for me if I ever decide to take the plunge and become fat.

Thanks in advace to anyone willing to share their experiences x


! Hi!
I can definitely relate to what you’re saying. For me, gaining has been both exciting and a big shift in mindset. When I was thinner, I often felt like I didn’t quite “fit” in my own skin, like I was always restricting myself and worrying about how I looked. Once I started gaining, it felt incredibly freeing not to fight that anymore, just letting myself eat, indulge, and embrace the softness as it grew.

I’ve started to notice clothes getting tighter and my body changing, and instead of feeling anxious, I’ve learned to really enjoy it. There’s something deeply satisfying about leaning into the process and realizing I actually love my bigger body more than my old skinny frame.

Of course, it’s not for everyone, but for me it’s been an empowering journey. And with my feeder encouraging me and spoiling me with big meals, it’s become both a physical and emotional experience that I don’t regret at all.
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