Lifestyle tips

Hey everyone i recently started dating a big girl but it doesn't seem to me that she's into federism any tip on how to know if she's into it or if i can convince her to imbrace it?

If you don't think she's into it don't try to convince her to. Trying to see if she is into feederism is quite hard but I'd assume she isn't until you do think she definitely is.

Just enjoy dating! Get to know her! See if you guys are really vibing on a personality level, and also if your values align. At some point, earlier than later, it's helpful to have a kink/fetish conversation where you find out what turns each other on. Some women are offended that someone wants to be with them because they're fat, and she might feel fetishized. Make it clear you like her, and you think she's hot, and you happen to have this fetish, but that you're not fetishizing her.

I mean, you are welcome to ask, but there's no promise she will want to get bigger.

If she does not want to gain, don't push it. It's her body. If you two break up and she only gains for your pleasure, she is going to hate herself later.

I have spent most of my life liking fat women. I don't think that any of them liked being fat. I would say that they all hated it. Some women kind of accepted it. It's one reason why I hang out here. I do not want to really feed anyone (unless they really wanted it), but I just like seeing woman who actually like being fat.

My partner isn’t into this fetish, but that hasn’t stopped us from enjoying our relationship. The key is that we both understand the fetish isn’t the central part of what we have, what matters most is our connection, respect, and mutual attraction.

For me, In a mature relationship, a fetish can be a fun extra, but it shouldn’t be the main pillar holding it together. You also need to be honest with yourself. If this fetish is essential for your happiness, it’s better to acknowledge it now than to try to change someone who may never enjoy it. It’s much healthier to know where you both stand from the start.

Hi, I have a GF. But I have the same kink as you. So maybe we could have s chat.