Gaining

According to Dr. Feeder's amazing article Deciding to Get Fat, if you want to gain but feel guilty about it, then you aren't ready yet. How have you been able to get past this step? I had recently tried to just give in, but my guilt really took hold and I wasn't able to continue.

I've never really actually gotten past the fact of having some guilt. But for me it just got to a point where I feel guilty because I have a family who loves me that wants me to be in good health, but it got to a point that I had to decide to go for it anyway because living as a skinny makes me sooo unhappy so I'd rather just let myself get fat and have a body that I actually love and just have to deal with the guilt and pressure to be skinny and be polite about it knowing the whole time I don't want to change as I'm so much happier gaining

Used to be a gainer forever ago. I had a lot of guilt because my mother would body shame me a lot. To put it bluntly, you gotta get over it.

Identify why you feel guilty, and work on letting go. It might take some time, but you can do it.