Fat experiences

As a lifelong FA (and in recent years, feeder) I have always enjoyed watching my partners gain weight, wether relationship weight or intentional gain. However lately I have been fantasizing more and more about getting fat myself. I am currently average size but trying to picture myself at 200 kilos, huge belly covering my privates, etc. It’s not at all an unpleasant thought. Not sure if I’ll ever go through with it though. Anyone else experience this? The line separating feeder from feeder seems to be razor thin sometimes😅

I think it’s pretty common actually. Lol

I have always been a feeder and enjoyed my partners once hard frames softening or their fat frames ballooning under my watchful hand and eye.

I decided last year however to turn my own thin frame into that of a muscle chub style. I have been stuffing myself consistently and have also found a mutual feeder who has been able to assist in ensuring i plump up quickly.

Sitting here now with an ever growing muscle chub body i can now understand why some of my exes ultimately enjoyed letting go and fattening up.

The pleasure of being able to stuff yourself without the fear of rejection, the fact your body grows more plush and the fact you get rewarded for such in the bedroom is all but enough to make me question whether or not becoming a feedee was worth it

This is extremely common. Some of the reasons:

a) It's hard to find someone who wants to fatten up.

Even if you're straight, going through FF and YouTube, you're bound to run across videos of guys who look great as they fatten up...and then they become role models.

c) As you become more comfortable with preferring fat/gaining partners, the notion of getting fat yourself becomes more plausible.

For me, this kink has always been something that evolves over time. I started out as an FA, just enjoying the attraction to fatness. Later I became a feeder, loving the idea of helping someone grow and over the years, I realized I also wanted to explore my own feedee side, feeling in my own body what I’ve always enjoyed seeing in others. I think that kind of shift is pretty natural, if you’re into fat, experiencing it from different angles just makes it deeper and more fun.

This!

Interesting to hear everyone’s evolution with in this weight gain fetish.

I too was into fat and then on women only, then I also encouraged my girlfriends and wife. For a time I turned it on myself and simultaneously both my wife and I were gaining at the same time, so kind of a mutual gaining with mine being intentional and hers just eating out of control with me.

I would have to say that the mutual gaining was the most arousing, loving and most exciting within this desire for weight gain and fat for me.

If you see fat as beautiful on someone else's body, why wouldn't you see it as beautiful on your own?
Being a mutual gainer is better.