Fat experiences

Hi, I am in a new relationship and wondering how to broach the subject of weight gain fantasies and desires. What are some ways you all have successfully brought up these fantasies with a new partner? There is a chance we share this desire, but how can I confirm?

How long have y'all been dating?

4 months

And does she seem at least neutral to gaining weight? How does she feel about fatness in general?

Do you want her to be your feeder? Or is this a mutual gainer thing?

not really sure how they feel about any of it to be honest...it hasn't ever come up so far. I strictly just want to discuss it as a topic of fantasy...not looking to actually change either of us.

Weight gain fantasies are better brought up with someone you know is a feedee. To gauge the attitude towards gaining weight, you can tease around or maybe just bring up weight in a neutral way. Mention that you dated someone who weighed 300 pounds, and see if she reacts.

I am not sure where is the limit between taking care of a partner and having a lot of food on the table inviting her to eat making the meals a special time and encouraging the partner to gain. If food is available and she eats is it necessary to mention an official weight gain chat?