Fat experiences

I went to a party last weekend and saw loads of people who I havent spoken to in a few years. Everyone was staring at my belly because im fat now.

Some people started to tease me, like someone said that theres not enough food at the party or asking me if im pregnant.

I even met someone who told me after we started kissing that she likes me now that im fat, and that she would love to fill me up. Tempted by the offer I refused it anyway.

Did I make a mistake?

That's for you to decide, I think those people are dicks though they shouldn't make fun of you

You are not wrong, it is others who are teasing you. The important thing is that you are comfortable with yourself.

I had that six months ago! People I hadn't seen in a while were really mean!! They asked if I was sick, thought I was ugly and unhealthy... I got a lot of mean comments... Unfortunately, I lost weight two months later and am now 27 kilos lighter and incredibly unhappy.

not because they lost weight!! but partly because of feeling lonely and insecure

My high school friends probably would do a double-take if they saw my belly has gone from nothing to a big ol’ ball belly in recent years :-)

My wife is about 340 pounds but has been above 300 to stay for about 10 years. She’s often said if her friends back where she grew up could see how fat she’s gotten since high school they wouldn’t recognize her. She was but about 140 back then :-)