i would suggest using the term "hogging" implies that there is no consent.
if two people are participating in whatever type of humiliation they have consented to, within the limits they've agreed on, it's just that - humiliation and/or degradation, which is great. maybe you can role-play a hogging scenario, but hopefully you at least like each other.
hogging implies someone is being taken advantage of, it's not based on attraction. even if the "victim" gets off on it, because they like to be degraded, i don't think it's hogging if that was the intent from the perpetrator. that would be my interpretation, anyway.
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