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WARNING!!!!!! this feedee Fatbellybigfish is trying to black mail me don't talk to her or sent pics of your self she wil use them !!!!!!

i’m sorry this is happening to you 😞 sending ❤️

Thanks for the alert and the other information.

I just want to remind everyone of a few things:

1) This site is free to join (and as far as I'm aware, plans to stay that way) and it deals with a niche subject matter that a lot of people struggle to find an outlet for in real life. There are also legitimate users who want to browse the site anonymously because of the subject matter, so it doesn't restrict VPN login (to the main site). It's a perfect environment for romance scammers and catfish to be successful. And Fantasy Feeder isn't particularly unique in this respect--lots of websites and social media sites are in the same position because there is money to be made in scams.

The site has filters and tools in place to block suspicious account creation, but these can never be 100% perfect. There are moderators who work every day behind the scenes banning scam accounts that get through one by one. It's a lot of work and they do a great job considering how hard it is. The reports help a lot.

But the rest is on everyone else to be street smart and have healthy skepticism about who you interact with. Don't rush to be the first person to DM every female-presenting account the first minute they sign up, because if you wait a day or two, we'll catch the scammers. Most of them are the same couple of guys, doing it over and over again, BECAUSE IT WORKS. That's just the numbers.

And just be smart.
1. If the profile pic looks like a model or you think you've seen that headless belly before, doesn't necessarily mean it's not the real person, but have a little skepticism.
2. If the english in the profile is off or reads like AI, have a lot of skepticism.
3. Don't get lured offsite unless you trust someone. Fantasy Feeder has no control over what happens on other websites like Discord or Telegram.
4. And never ever ever give personally identifiable information to someone or money you'd be sad to see flushed down the toilet. If someone's asking for crypto or gift cards, alert us and block them.

That's my PSA.

well said

Also, if you get scammed, please report the scammer.

Do not just block and move on. Report them. Include screenshots when possible. This includes any off-site activity.

If you include evidence, you can email it to team@fantasyfeeder.com.

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Please send full context. There's a disgusting contingency of men out there who will falsely label women as scammers because they did not give them free porn. If you send a report with no context or send what could be perceived as something taken out of context, you may get lumped in with those men.

There have been many times a scammer stuck around for a long time because people would not report them. When you do your part to report them, you reduce the number of scammers.

I've seen this before, but it isn't particularly common at all (and since you can't see reports, I don't know what you're basing your data on), but when it happens the admin team is quick to recognize what's going on. The most common issue is guys from countries with weak cyber security laws posing as women and trying to get money. Or catfish who just do it to get off but aren't looking for money.

Some new tools have been installed in the past year to catch the old accounts better. Reports are still important, but the most important thing is to not give money or personally identifiable information (PII) to people you meet on this site. When a scammer gets banned, they can make a new account 10 minutes later and we're right back where we started. If nobody is giving the scammers money, they really go away. It's only a handful of guys and they do it for a living. They're not going to waste their time on a site that's not profitable.

I'm going to lock this thread now unless another admin would like to add something. Don't give strangers money or personally identifiable information.