Fat experiences

Hi, I am in a new relationship and wondering how to broach the subject of weight gain fantasies and desires. What are some ways you all have successfully brought up these fantasies with a new partner? There is a chance we share this desire, but how can I confirm?

How long have y'all been dating?

4 months

And does she seem at least neutral to gaining weight? How does she feel about fatness in general?

Do you want her to be your feeder? Or is this a mutual gainer thing?

not really sure how they feel about any of it to be honest...it hasn't ever come up so far. I strictly just want to discuss it as a topic of fantasy...not looking to actually change either of us.

Weight gain fantasies are better brought up with someone you know is a feedee. To gauge the attitude towards gaining weight, you can tease around or maybe just bring up weight in a neutral way. Mention that you dated someone who weighed 300 pounds, and see if she reacts.

I am not sure where is the limit between taking care of a partner and having a lot of food on the table inviting her to eat making the meals a special time and encouraging the partner to gain. If food is available and she eats is it necessary to mention an official weight gain chat?

As a rule, I don't bring it up.

If your partner is happy, the weight will pile on. It's definitely a thing.

If you're the type that has to engage in feederism as some core part of your sexuallity, I recommend you date exclusively people on FF/curvage/fet/etc, who are confirmed to be into what you're after.

At the end of the day, all of / this/ is something I could take or leave. As long as my wife is happy, I'm happy.

Is it a huge(lol) bonus that she has gained around a hundred pounds since we first started dating? Hell yes.

We have been together for over fifteen years, and in all that time, I haven't had "the talk" with her but she has definitely come to her own conclusions and teases me about it.

A few years ago I was working a lot of over time. She called me and asked if I could cut out early that evening. I started to explain, "Well, no, we're right in the middle of something and..." when she cut in to explain that she had been hanging out with her sister and they had split an edible her sister had made earlier that day. She thought it was a lot stronger than they expected and she was freaking out a bit. Oh, and that she and her sister had just ordered four large pizzas but her sister had passed out and they were going to be there in about fifteen minutes...

I took a beat and said, "I'll be there in thirty minutes."

Twenty minutes later, I was at my front door with a pint of mocha ice cream.