My fiancée and I have been together for nearly six years. When we met, she was about 160 lbs—curvy, in good shape, and her budget at the time limited how much she could spend on snacks and dining out. Once we started dating, I happily introduced her to a world of new foods, and she quickly became a foodie. In the first couple of years, she had a huge appetite and gained weight rapidly, which I was more than happy to encourage.
These days, her eating habits have settled, though she occasionally expresses concern about her size. Now that we live together and she works full-time, she has the means to indulge freely. Her lifestyle has become very sedentary; when she's not working, she often spends the day in bed with snacks and takeout, which she orders herself. I support her by cooking meals, keeping her supplied with snacks, and generally catering to her requests.
She's now 280 pounds, and while she sometimes talks about wanting to lose weight, any attempt I make to help—like suggesting the gym—is met with a preference for staying in bed with her snacks. A lot has changed since we first met, and I have to admit, I can't wait for her to hit 300 pounds and beyond, becoming even bigger and more settled into her relaxed lifestyle.
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