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Munchies   United States
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Mrsilke:
hey all, I'm new to this site so forgive me. but recently I've gotten into a relationship with a girl, love her more than anything. But she's told me she wants me to get a little bigger. At first I assumed she ment bulk up, work out, yadda yadda. Which is a valid assumption considering I'm 6 2 and weighed 145ish pounds, and she's a bitter shorter and curvier. but as of recent it seems like it's become more of dirty bulk of sorts. Like a few days ago she surprised me with sending me a meal from zaxbys at like 8 o'clock, and then she made me a big brunch the next day, and she is always encouraging me to eat. She says it's so I have energy and mass to build on for the gym. But idk I just can't figure it out. Any help?


Have you tried talking to her?
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Munchies   United States
Joined 4 years
Mrsilke:
We've sorta talked about it, but not delving into feederism i guess. I've been having weird dreams recently where it consist of her constantly feeding me donuts, and I told her about it and she didn't seem like enthusiastic about it but also didn't seem to mind it. I've put on 12 pounds already with my bulk and we've only been dating for about a month now. Idk what to say to her, she knows I've put on a little weight obviously, and that I'm going to the gym as well. Just unsure what her main goal is.


Have you been skirting around the topic? Or have you been candid?

To be very blunt, it isn't obvious if this is kink or not. You are a scrawny man who could stand to put on a few. Your gf might simply be eager to get fast results. Same as one might be for weight loss or muscle mass.

Talk to her about your concerns. Not everything is kinky.
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Munchies   United States
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Mrsilke:
You may be correct but I also asked her a few days ago jokingly, but like also not jokingly, if she was gonna feed me in order to "bulk" me up, and she said that she would love to.


Okay, but your profile says you are in South Carolina. Women in the South believe in putting meat on our men's bones. It's a way of life.

Ask her.
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Munchies   United States
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Mrsilke:
So last night we stopped by the gas station and made me buy like 3 bags of candy, 1 for her, 1 for me, and 1 to share. We get back to her place and she opens up my bag for me and tells me to have them and then once I slowed down she grabbed some and handed them to me. We opened up her bag and she ate like 3 and put them away. And then like an hour later she essentially makes me finish the bag to share. Is that an indicator?


Stop being chicken shit and have an actual conversion with her.
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Urchie   United States
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Yea I mean it low-key sounds like you're writing a fanfiction lol, you should just talk to her about it communicating is important
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Munchies   United States
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Urchie:
Yea I mean it low-key sounds like you're writing a fanfiction lol, you should just talk to her about it communicating is important


Yeah, either this is a shitty attempt at creative writing or he really needs to be an adult.
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Munchies   United States
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Mrsilke:
Well this is the truth and unfortunately I got cheated on last year around this time by my gf of 2 years and that really fucked me up. And now I've found this girl but I don't want to lose what we have because I thought she might be into feederism. Cause I'm not sure but I feel like if your accused of that and your not into it, I feel like it doesn't rollover well. I'm just trying to get input from yall whom are into this and see if yall see any signs or not.


No one is talking about you accusing her. I mean asking her about why she does what she does. And if you truly believe that she's a feedist, talk to her about it in a frank, confrontational way.
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Munchies   United States
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Urchie:
Yea I mean it low-key sounds like you're writing a fanfiction lol, you should just talk to her about it communicating is important

Munchies:
Yeah, either this is a shitty attempt at creative writing or he really needs to be an adult.

Mrsilke:
Real welcoming by the way yall, I mean a little sympathy for the situation


Look, I already told you what you need to do multiple times. You are resistant to do it.

I am in TN. We are basically neighbors. You know good and well that the South has a very food-centered culture. It is super common for people to feed up scrawny people as well as women feeding up their men. It's not even a kink for the most part.

Hell, I'm a full on female feeder with a very large male feedee. I can openly feed him in public and people will assume I'm simply a doting girlfriend. You can't assume shit about her intentions. You have no choice but to ask and be direct.

I get if you need help with words, but unless you put on your big boy pants and ask her, there's no point in doing anything else.
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M00fint0p   United States
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after reading this thread, the best advice i can give is to ask her whether she wants the bulk to be muscle or chub. maybe she wants both? who knows?
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Voluptuouslover   United States
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So, you consider yourself a feedee?

If so, she may like you softer and fatter as well as bigger muscularly as a muscle chub. But, I believe the FA Feedee within you is picking up exaggerated signs from her liking you being fatter. It’s a fine thing, why don’t you just really try and get fat and see how she keeps reacting - and let us know.
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