Lifestyle tips

Well this is the truth and unfortunately I got cheated on last year around this time by my gf of 2 years and that really fucked me up. And now I've found this girl but I don't want to lose what we have because I thought she might be into feederism. Cause I'm not sure but I feel like if your accused of that and your not into it, I feel like it doesn't rollover well. I'm just trying to get input from yall whom are into this and see if yall see any signs or not.

Real welcoming by the way yall, I mean a little sympathy for the situation

No one is talking about you accusing her. I mean asking her about why she does what she does. And if you truly believe that she's a feedist, talk to her about it in a frank, confrontational way.

Look, I already told you what you need to do multiple times. You are resistant to do it.

I am in TN. We are basically neighbors. You know good and well that the South has a very food-centered culture. It is super common for people to feed up scrawny people as well as women feeding up their men. It's not even a kink for the most part.

Hell, I'm a full on female feeder with a very large male feedee. I can openly feed him in public and people will assume I'm simply a doting girlfriend. You can't assume shit about her intentions. You have no choice but to ask and be direct.

I get if you need help with words, but unless you put on your big boy pants and ask her, there's no point in doing anything else.

after reading this thread, the best advice i can give is to ask her whether she wants the bulk to be muscle or chub. maybe she wants both? who knows?

She said she wouldn't mind muscle chub.

But everytime we hang out she keeps grabbing my love handles and trying to jiggle my "belly". And when I make a self deprecation joke about being chubby or fat, she is always like "you are nowhere near fat" or like in a joking tone "not chubby enough"

So, you consider yourself a feedee?

If so, she may like you softer and fatter as well as bigger muscularly as a muscle chub. But, I believe the FA Feedee within you is picking up exaggerated signs from her liking you being fatter. It’s a fine thing, why don’t you just really try and get fat and see how she keeps reacting - and let us know.

“Woe is me I have a girlfriend who likes playing with my body fat but I’m not sure if she likes it or not”

what are we even doing here bruh.

i read through this thread and as a girl with a similar issue myself but from the opposite perspective, (im not sure if the guy ive been talking to would be into getting bigger for me) i feel like your gf is probably into it to some degree because some of the things youve said that shes said and done are nearly identical to some of the things that ive said and done to the guy that im currently talking to. like hes said some things that make me think hes into it too but like im too scared to like bring it up with him because the chances that i met someone organically in real life whos into this kinda thing who’s also my age and also in my city is like extremely unlikely. but yeah i completely relate to ur issue and like the closest ive gotten to talking about it with him is when were both kinda drunk so that your less scared to admit stuff like i told him i was into fat guys when i was drunk and then he called himself fat and i was like “nah ur way too skinny for me” like stuff like that so like honestly i think shes into it based of my personal experience but thats just me idk