I've been married all of a month, but with my partner for a good minute now. She is not so interested in bigger guys, prefers fit men and things really started to feel tense after I hit 300lbs. She was so upset, so tired of it, but we still have an incredible romantic relationship. We didn't even end up having sex on our honeymoon and my wife seemed to excited to when we were driving to it. But when we got back home I teased her a little saying she could sleep with someone, and she questioned it for all of a day before getting active on fetlife to find some guys. One month in, she's spending the weekend with a guy while I'm home stuffing my fat face. She's not very dom but tries her best to tease me for being incapable of satisfying her like the guy she's with now! IT's been incredible haha, feel free to AMA, highly recommend this feedee path tbh.
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