Fattening others

I met a girl not too long ago and we started dating. She’s into being a Feedee as well and since we started feeding her I have put on about 20lbs as well. She seems to like it but not sure how I feel. I feel it may be a little hypocritical of me to start dieting though. Anyone else ever been in this situation?

This is pretty common - in fact I have done this myself all the time. Initially I accidentally gain and notice it later on after I have a belly sticking out in front of me or sitting on my lap while sitting down, and this is what encouraged me to intentionally gain.

My wife not a gainer I have witnessed similar accidental gains followed by fuck it I am already fat now, why not keep eating because my appetite is out of control.

Accidental gaining is pretty arousing and sexy, bit continued gaining after noticing is even sexier for me on my wife and now I have started loving it on myself also for many years.

not hypocritical, if she LIKES gaining and feels comfortable getting fatter and that's what she does, that's her right.. you on the other hand, you get to make your own decisions about your body .. you shouldn't feel guilty about wanting to lose weight .. and if you're undecided then give it a go if you liked it then okay, if you didn't then you should be able to live in the body that feels comfortable, and so does she.

I think it's quite easy to gain weight while giving fattening treats to your feedee all day...it's certainly happened to me!

But if you're not a feedee yourself you are free to diet. Of course, you should talk to your feedee about it and allay any concerns she may have.

In fact, some feedees are into contrast and prefer it if their feeders are slim.

dating a ssbbw was what caused my accidental gain, starting me on the path to becoming a ssbhm!

she was not into gaining, but she loved good food and booze. she was the one that opened me up to food as something to be enjoyed, not just as a means to survival (or gaining), but for its textures, flavours, how it made me feel...

i tried to lose weight a couple of times while i was with her, but it was too difficult. plus i was getting too lazy and more interested in joining her in her indulgences.

i think the unfortunate side effect of that was, she preferred my fit, muscular body (her current bf is *very* lean and athletic). that didn't cause our break up (i moved for work), but who knows, it may have in the long run?

if your gal is keen on your softer body, then why not go with it?