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Only fans is a scam

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Edddde   United States
Joined 1 year
MikeRock81:
I appreciate it too, at least one reasonable person in this thread, capable of answering without turning everything to eleven ('This is Spinal Tap' moment ;-) )

Harleen Zaftig:
I actually really do apologize if my comment came across as insulting; it was brought up with authentic concern for your wellbeing.--how can we remember when you don't even have a profile?

KlondikeBar:
Not the person you were talking to but I pardon for overreacting towards your post. I didn't get the context at the time. On an unrelated note, that one guy should be ashamed for being an immature bully.

JN_TumLover56:
Well it’s nice to see that we all came to a conclusion and clarified what we were trying to get across. 👍 I even sent a message to Randi apologizing for getting carried away earlier.

KlondikeBar:
Don't remember that name but glad you guys made up! edit: nevermind I think they responded to me before, I lost track.

52Percent:
Don’t forget about me too. ✌🏼
5 months

Only fans is a scam

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Laser   United States
Joined 16 years
Edddde:
Integrity – We Uphold Trust--- this is what only Fans says. It's just a platform to scam people out of money. Message people on here is you are truly interested in them and don't be saying "I need you to paypal me" pr send money by other means.

Canuck:
not sure what your point is - are you complaining that people on here are promoting their onlyfans and that they aren't interested in a relationship with you?

Edddde:
Basically ppl want you to pay them to interact with them. Why should I pay to have someone to interact with me?


"Why should I" can easily be "I wouldn't" and "I don't" pay for content centered on interaction. You can interact with folks that engage freely, and needn't bother with those whose engagement is tied to a pay-wall. Like you've stated/written, there are others means to interact with folks outside of Only fans.

Now what maybe an "issue", is that there is someone you want "access" to, and can't have it unless you pay, which is ultimately a you "problem".

Why worry about the folks whom ask for pay to play, if you aren't going to give them your time? Why be upset/agitated that there are members on FF that view this fetish as a monetary endeavor/exchange?
5 months

Only fans is a scam

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Canuck   Canada
Joined 9 years

Edddde:
Basically ppl want you to pay them to interact with them. Why should I pay to have someone to interact with me?


if you want a specific someone to interact with you, yes, you may have to pay them for that!

if you want people to interact with you purely out of their own interest, well, you don't get to pick who those people are... they will be whoever finds you interesting.

there's a real undercurrent of male entitlement in these "everything is a scam" posts that i've seen lately, and it's always "the (fill-in-the-blank) is the problem, the problem is not me."

i've been on ff and feabie a long time (mostly ff), i've made great friends on both sites. i've been out to dinner and for drinks with a few members, too. i've never dated anyone from either site, though. i know a few friends that have - but it's very, very, very, very rare.

if you're pissed off that someone won't respond to your messages except through onlyfans, they're a pro, they're not there for casual chit chat. so either pay up, or move on. simple as that.

never expect to get more out of an online community than you're prepared to put into it.
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