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Getting muscle chub

Hey all, I've posted a thread before but lowkey got blasted on it. So to summarize that my gf and I have been dating for a few months now and she wants me to be a bit bigger. She says she wants me to be wider and she wants to feel small (she is a bit thicker, not fat by any means though). I am taller but I came into this relationship around I'd say 135-140ish pounds and now I am up to 165. I honestly barely see a difference. Maybe I've widened out a tiny bit and I can see some pudge on my belly but I am not really "chubby" (being that lanky can't really see it). When I first met her she said she'd like if I was bigger, and I was initially confused but after talking for a little bit about it, she's come out and says she wants me to be muscle chub and heavier set, and to widen out. I am about to start hitting the gym again, just been really busy with college classes and all that. What can I do to maximize weight gain to get that muscle chub physique? Thanks for tips if you have any. I can the and answer any questions.
4 weeks

Getting muscle chub

Mrsilke:
Hey all, I've posted a thread before but lowkey got blasted on it. So to summarize that my gf and I have been dating for a few months now and she wants me to be a bit bigger. She says she wants me to be wider and she wants to feel small (she is a bit thicker, not fat by any means though). I am taller but I came into this relationship around I'd say 135-140ish pounds and now I am up to 165. I honestly barely see a difference. Maybe I've widened out a tiny bit and I can see some pudge on my belly but I am not really "chubby" (being that lanky can't really see it). When I first met her she said she'd like if I was bigger, and I was initially confused but after talking for a little bit about it, she's come out and says she wants me to be muscle chub and heavier set, and to widen out. I am about to start hitting the gym again, just been really busy with college classes and all that. What can I do to maximize weight gain to get that muscle chub physique? Thanks for tips if you have any. I can the and answer any questions.


as a former fitness/gym nut for more than 20 years (and now a big fatty), my advice is: eat as much as you can, especially protein. if you are starting to lift heavier weights to gain muscle, you are going to need to really increase the calories you're taking in.

i found it hard to put on weight when i was exercising a lot, but i wasn't stuffing at that time. if you can keep fueling your muscles (and your chusmiley you'll do great! you'll want to target well over normal calories, though (shoot for 5,000 a day or more if you can manage it).
3 weeks

Getting muscle chub

Mrsilke:
Hey all, I've posted a thread before but lowkey got blasted on it. So to summarize that my gf and I have been dating for a few months now and she wants me to be a bit bigger. She says she wants me to be wider and she wants to feel small (she is a bit thicker, not fat by any means though). I am taller but I came into this relationship around I'd say 135-140ish pounds and now I am up to 165. I honestly barely see a difference. Maybe I've widened out a tiny bit and I can see some pudge on my belly but I am not really "chubby" (being that lanky can't really see it). When I first met her she said she'd like if I was bigger, and I was initially confused but after talking for a little bit about it, she's come out and says she wants me to be muscle chub and heavier set, and to widen out. I am about to start hitting the gym again, just been really busy with college classes and all that. What can I do to maximize weight gain to get that muscle chub physique? Thanks for tips if you have any. I can the and answer any questions.

Canuck:
as a former fitness/gym nut for more than 20 years (and now a big fatty), my advice is: eat as much as you can, especially protein. if you are starting to lift heavier weights to gain muscle, you are going to need to really increase the calories you're taking in.

i found it hard to put on weight when i was exercising a lot, but i wasn't stuffing at that time. if you can keep fueling your muscles (and your chusmiley you'll do great! you'll want to target well over normal calories, though (shoot for 5,000 a day or more if you can manage it).


Thanks for the tips. Is there any certain protein intake that I should get, I've heard of mass gainer protein powder. Any idea if it's worth it.
3 weeks

Getting muscle chub

Agreed.

Its going to feel like an insane ammount of calories and you have to be consistent with ot for a looooong time.

I use dextrose shakes.

1: because its easier to drink calories and
2: the insulin response that allows your body to store calories IF you are intaking enough.
3 weeks

Getting muscle chub


Mrsilke:
Thanks for the tips. Is there any certain protein intake that I should get, I've heard of mass gainer protein powder. Any idea if it's worth it.


protein powders are more for people who want to increase muscle mass without gaining fat, so i would say you don't need to go there to be a muscle chub. plus, it is hard on your kidneys.

eat some eggs, lots of meat, cheese, whatever - a gram of protein is the same regardless of where it comes from. but if you eat it as part of a meal, it's probably healthier but it is also way more enjoyable if it is in tasty food!
3 weeks

Getting muscle chub

I was (125 pounds 6foot 1) I am upto 185 in 12months. All I can say is train like a beast and eat like one too.
2 weeks

Getting muscle chub

Thank you guys for letting me know. Really gonna try and go all in. And I don't think she'll mind if I'm a little more chubby than muscley. She just sent me a TikTok that said "Watching guys eat is so hot"
2 weeks

Getting muscle chub

Carbs and protein and couple shots of olive oil a day. Aim for body weight in grams of protein and double or tripple in carbs.

Weights heavy compound lifts. Presses, rows, deadlift, squat. Separate days. But really like 10 sets of 5 reps. Start lighter than easy like something you could do 25 reps with, increase the weight until set 10 only gets 3 reps. Next week hopefully you get 5, the following increase weight to failure again.
2 weeks

Getting muscle chub

Mrsilke:
Thank you guys for letting me know. Really gonna try and go all in. And I don't think she'll mind if I'm a little more chubby than muscley. She just sent me a TikTok that said "Watching guys eat is so hot"


Sounds to me you have a female feeder on your hands. Kiss any remaining trace of thiness away my friend!
2 weeks

Getting muscle chub

Mrsilke:
Thank you guys for letting me know. Really gonna try and go all in. And I don't think she'll mind if I'm a little more chubby than muscley. She just sent me a TikTok that said "Watching guys eat is so hot"

Kx500:
Sounds to me you have a female feeder on your hands. Kiss any remaining trace of thiness away my friend!


You really think so? She hasn't directly like asked to feed me or anything. But everytime we go out to eat she try's to get me to eat her food she doesn't finish and always encourages me to completely finish my meal. I thought it was just making the most of our money but now I might think otherwise. Any input?
2 weeks
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