women (generally speaking) are not a monolith and have very varied tastes, including some, quite a lot of us, who like fat men.
you know what women are *not* into? being treated like a commodity, interchangeable, something you're somehow entitled to.
hearing men/boys/manchildren complain about wanting *a* girlfriend, *any* girlfriend, your features other than your girlfriend-ability and provider of sexy times don't matter... THAT is a huge turn-off
try the radical idea of treating women as people, people who don't owe you anything and who especially don't owe you sex just because you're nice to them... and who knows, one of them might click with you based on her *personality* shocking i know
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