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I'm a slightly chubby male 220lbs+ but I think I want to be a fat female.

I read a story on here, 'accepting new roles', and I feel like it's confused me so much, because it'd be a dream to be a BBW

I don't really know what I'm trying to say, I guess i just want to be a fat woman haha

Any advice would be great

Do you want to be a fat woman full time? Or do you want to be a fat woman as part of play?

I'm not trans, so I can only offer the most basic of advice.

Keep gaining weight like you already planned. As for the woman part, buy some women's clothing. Wear them in the comfort of you home and see how you feel about it. If that's your jam, socially transition at your own pace and go from there.

Perhaps some transwomen can jump in and give better advice than I can.

Thankyou for your advice, I plan on talking to my GP within the next few weeks to discuss my problem.

I’d recommend you take time to think about how you feel about your body when you are not turned on and turned on. It could be a gender play/ feminization fetish or it could be gender dysphoria. If you feel like your body is wrong and you want to be a woman when you are not turned on I’d recommend attempting to socially transition if it is safe for you. Questioning and being trans is hard but just know there are people out there who will support you.

Must be bliss´to be or become a ssbbw 😙😙

No, it is not a problem. You are perfect just the way you are already, if you are looking to change sex, you just want to get better. Talk to your doctor and have the necessary tests done. Share the burden with your close family or friends and lean on them. You are not alone, there are many people in your situation, this is just a phase.

PS: I know a trans girl who when she started her transition, she started gaining weight and was very happy because she had breasts, hips and ass.

I don't know if you were aware of this, but it isn't easy to get gender-affirming surgery. There are a lot of hoops you have to jump through to prove you really want to have it.

Plus, it's not legal everywhere either, and fairly expensive in the places it is legal.

That story was incredible but I think it's been deleted...

Is it because you identify as a women or because you are so turned on by fat female bodies?

Not advice, but just want to say I'm on the same boat haha. I'm a feedee, but I don't find it attractive when I gain weight :'( Personally, I find that weight packs on nicer on females, than males.

One of my biggest fantasies since I was young was to wake up and find that I have switched into a female body.

I've played around with the idea of making that fantasy into a reality by transitioning, but I ultimately find that's not what I want. If suddenly I woke up and was a female, then hurray! But to go through the whole process of changing my identity to fulfill a small fantasy, that's not for me. I'm curious to be a women, but I don't need nor want to go through that process.

On a good note, having though of that, I explored why I didn't find bigger men as attractive as bigger females. I found that I was more attracted to soft fat (subcutaneous fat), than hard fat (visceral fat).

For example, a sumo wrestler (which I do find attractive), are made up of a lot of soft fat, and very little hard fats. Not sure if I'd go into the whole regimen, but I'd follow their diet, and exercise in ways to reduce visceral fat. I think in this way, once I start my gaining journey, I will find myself more attractive just like I do when a female gains weight.

It's been a while since you're message so I hope all is well! :3 Happy new year!