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I’m chatting with a girl that I like on Snapchat since August. I dated her irl this week. I met her three years ago after a tinder match.
I would like to experience the feeder or feedee side with her. How to tell her my feederism kinks ? It feels sooo weird 🫠 What are your experiences about that?

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I've had the same dilemma as you a couple years back when I started dating my now fiancee. It just came naturally, I haven't had to force this conversation. One day we were talking and I've just told her. While she's not a feedee, and will never be most probably she accepts my kink and we're living peacefully.

I have had the same dilemma. With my ex I just brought it up, and then she said that "start make me gain" which I did. She started at 80 kg and gained to 113 kg. But she was not into it, more did it for me or what ever reason. After some years it was not fun for eighter of us as she was no true fa, gainer or feedee. Though we got children and were mostly happy, but ended up separated after yet some years.
I also know after living with a even larger good looking bbw, who doesn't share the kink, despite being fat and good looking, that eighther you got something from these kinks, or you don't. The result is that if she doesn't share any of it, you both will end up frustrated. The only way around it is to find a woman that shares it. Nothing else will work in the long run. If you can't supress your kink, which often is hard.
But I wish you all good luck! Maybe she is a feedee without knowing it!
If you don't mind, tell us the outcome 😀

Thanks for your reply. Let’s see if I get an opportunity to tell her soon. It seems very difficult to talk about this subject without being too direct, especially as we are essentially chatting on Snapchat and we met only 2 times in 2022 et 1 time this week

Thanks for your reply. Sharing your experience is very helpful. I don’t know maybe ahah. But since the last time I met her in 2022 she didn’t gain weight. She’s just naturally a little bit round. But as we are chatting everyday on Snapchat since August, maybe it’s time to slowly address our fantasies. Paradoxically enough, we never talked about anything related with sex for the moment. It seems really difficult to start talking about it without being too direct

maybe just kind of hint it to her at first and see how she reacts to those, if she continuously reacts positively, i recommend to jusr tell her straight up

i tell you my experience: i met two female feeders, one has significant impact on my waistline, i ate really well, but it was all just a kink, no real connection beyond that.


recently i mate a female feeder, who's also curvy, she really blow me up and before even talk about this we discussed food, and habits and the thing just brought up occasionally, she is a pro baker but never was into fattening some1 until we met and make huge meals toghether, she LOVE seeing me eating, and we have a real connection, and we dated for a long time. my point is, you never know, she might love it. Girls are cool, and more open then most men thinking.

Thanks for sharing your experience! You’re right, maybe we think to much and we should just go ahead and talk about it