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Lesbian safety on dating apps

I seriously got banned off feabie because i received a rape threat, as a lesbian by a straight man, this happens all the time here too. Why does society hate lesbians? Why do fat fetish spaces hate lesbians? Is there an alternative to ff and the even more cursed feabie?
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Lesbian safety on dating apps

DreamyLesbian:
I seriously got banned off feabie because i received a rape threat, as a lesbian by a straight man, this happens all the time here too. Why does society hate lesbians? Why do fat fetish spaces hate lesbians? Is there an alternative to ff and the even more cursed feabie?


Please report any kind of threats you receive on here. I know sometimes the instinct is to delete stuff like that and block the offender, but please take screenshots if you can, too. It’s much harder to figure out what happened if there’s no evidence. This goes for anyone reading this, of course. Report threatening behavior from other users.
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Lesbian safety on dating apps

Allowing lesbians to not be seen by men would prevent actual stalking, no fat fetish site tries to prevent it. Many cruel men are planning in silence, actually locating eomen they see on here to try and "turn them straight" please allow lesbians to hide themselves from men.
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Lesbian safety on dating apps

DreamyLesbian:
Allowing lesbians to not be seen by men would prevent actual stalking, no fat fetish site tries to prevent it. Many cruel men are planning in silence, actually locating eomen they see on here to try and "turn them straight" please allow lesbians to hide themselves from men.


This website isn’t gender segregated, but you can make your profile non-public (so only logged in users can see it) and there is a block feature to block individual users. I wish it blocked more things, but it does work. But like I said before, if you’re ever being harassed, send in a report with information so we can investigate.
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Lesbian safety on dating apps

Hated towards minorities is everywhere it really sucks.
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Lesbian safety on dating apps

Besides it would be very difficult to implement from a technical point of view. You would have to think on how to handle forum discussions, etc. Because what if a supposed man quoted a post from another person who quotes the lesbian's post? That would leak the post to everyone.
DreamyLesbian:
Allowing lesbians to not be seen by men would prevent actual stalking, no fat fetish site tries to prevent it. Many cruel men are planning in silence, actually locating eomen they see on here to try and "turn them straight" please allow lesbians to hide themselves from men.

Letters And Numbers:
This website isn’t gender segregated, but you can make your profile non-public (so only logged in users can see it) and there is a block feature to block individual users. I wish it blocked more things, but it does work. But like I said before, if you’re ever being harassed, send in a report with information so we can investigate.
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Lesbian safety on dating apps

Besides it would be very difficult to implement from a technical point of view. You would have to think on how to handle forum discussions, etc. Because what if a supposed man quoted a post from another person who quotes the lesbian's post? That would leak the post to everyone.
DreamyLesbian:
Allowing lesbians to not be seen by men would prevent actual stalking, no fat fetish site tries to prevent it. Many cruel men are planning in silence, actually locating eomen they see on here to try and "turn them straight" please allow lesbians to hide themselves from men.

Letters And Numbers:
This website isn’t gender segregated, but you can make your profile non-public (so only logged in users can see it) and there is a block feature to block individual users. I wish it blocked more things, but it does work. But like I said before, if you’re ever being harassed, send in a report with information so we can investigate.

Gushloader:
The problem isn't UI difficulty. The webmaster doesn't bother with his website anymore; MIA. Only the staff are the pillars of the community but I don't think they have the power to make these web dev changes. I am assuming they have to talk to the big boss to do implementation.

Edit: Quote is messed up for some reason. Was trying to respond to Gushloader.
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Lesbian safety on dating apps

DreamyLesbian:
Allowing lesbians to not be seen by men would prevent actual stalking, no fat fetish site tries to prevent it. Many cruel men are planning in silence, actually locating eomen they see on here to try and "turn them straight" please allow lesbians to hide themselves from men.

Letters And Numbers:
This website isn’t gender segregated, but you can make your profile non-public (so only logged in users can see it) and there is a block feature to block individual users. I wish it blocked more things, but it does work. But like I said before, if you’re ever being harassed, send in a report with information so we can investigate.

Gushloader:


KlondikeBar:
The problem isn't UI difficulty. The webmaster doesn't bother with his website anymore; MIA. Only the staff are the pillars of the community but I don't think they have the power to make these web dev changes. I am assuming they have to talk to the big boss to do implementation.
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It's not true at all that the webmaster is MIA, there are updates to the site on a scheduled, rolling basis. But it's absolutely true that other staff don't have the ability to touch code. That's true for most web forums, I hope.

Not every suggestion from users or staff will be implemented, though. They all get heard, and I've seen many user suggestions put in place, but not every suggestion is technically feasible or is in line with the design goals of the site. And some get added, but just not on the schedule one person might want. It's a process.
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