Petitegirl:
I donât know if some feeders here agree with me. I also experience it in real life in my friendgroup a lot: women that are so thoughtful of their own diet/excercise regime while they complete ignore that their partner is getting fat/are fattening him on purpose! Have you experienced that too?
I personally know that I am a feeder, super attracted to fat men and making them fatter. But sometimes I think it is crazy what different kind of standarts/rules I have for myself. For me it is really important so stay super skinny and fit, to workout everyday, be super active/healthy etc. The food i am cooking/preparing and feeding to others I would never touch. Also I would never want a partner to be as active/sporty. I want to make sure that they can be as lazy as possible (for example I would always get up to bring whatever).
And weirdly enough I also like if a partner checks that I am keeping my figure. For example that he would touch my stomach to make sure there is not a single bit of fat or that in a restaurant he would tell me to stop eating and than finish my portion.
Lol Oh I know this tune all too well.
Im certified personal trainer, and Menâs Physique bodybuilder. I get questioned all the time by for being attracted to fat men and women. Just because you are built a certain way doesnât mean you are required to be attracted to the same build on another person. Thatâs madness. Muscles are on others are disgusting to me. And no itâs not crazy to hold yourself to a certain standard. And yeah, I know what you mean, I wouldnât want to date someone who was ok with me getting fat either. I dated one chick that was surprised to see me eat junk food. Another chick, literally said âyou getting chunkyâ when I bulked up to 206lbs. I wouldnât even consider dating a partner who wasnât attracted to a small waist and flat abs. Itâs a waste of both of our time.
