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Okay, for some context; I have been trying and trying to reach out to people here to have conversations and try to get to know them better.


I have been unlucky and I have felt disillusioned with trying to find somebody on this site.


I have ultimately decided ever since the beginning of October, that if I was unlucky in finding an actual girlfriend, then I would give up on my journey.


After COUNTLESS Guys messaged me where they said that they wanted to SA me, an endless ocean of scammers, and a couple sprinkles of rude women along the way.


I am flat out just finished with the hassle. I've tried for several months now and I am certain that I will not be able to continue on.


I wish everybody the best! I wish the best meals and for everybody else to have a fair chance in the dating pool, because I will not.

Well people come and go , eish you the best : )

Sorry about those men saying those things, some men here are very stupid and I hate them

Online life is very focused. It's not the real world. It's far more difficult to turn an online connection into a physical world connection. You would do better being open and approachable in person than trying to do so here. You can always hint about what you want and people who are in tune will receive your signal. Those that are not will simply not detect your fetish or if they do they will ignore it.

I will say my real life non-fetish relationship lasted longer (5 years) than my online fetish-based relationships. Me and my first ex are still on good terms to this day. We just had a nice short conversation at Fred Meyer days ago.

I am probably generalizing but from what I've seen a lot of people on here aren't here for a deeper a connection. More like they are focused on the kink lifestyle if that makes sense. That was probably my issue when dating a few gainer guys. They were more fixated on talking about their WG which I will admit has gotten old.

I'm also a single Pringle and can resonate with your post. However, I've started to realize that I wasn't loving myself and had a fear of abandonment. American traditional norms have brainwashed us that we need a partner to be happy which isn't always true.

I grew up in a dysfunctional family and I fear of being married/having a long-term relationship after seeing the downfall of my parents' marriage. I often have traumatic flashbacks of my mom having a severe mental breakdown which I won't go into further details.

Welp, I am getting off track. Anyhow, I watched this video on YT in regards to loneliness/dating hurtful people and this lady shared some great advice that I think might help you out. I wish you well!

This sounds like my experience. I get a lot of guys interested in me but mostly whenever I contacted women, they either ignored me or accused me of being a "stalker" for contacting them one time. When I was successful in contacting women through chat or FF messaging, it would last a couple of messages and then they would ghost me.

I haven't had many problems with scammers relating to fat and none related to FF. When I was on Feabie, all I got were people begging for money, sometimes directly or sometimes indirectly ("Buy me some clothes and I'll model them for you".

FF and this fetish in general only works if you're a woman or a gay man. Maybe it's better to look for someone in real life rather than online, but it's not easy to find women open about either liking fat guys or liking their own fat bodies. I think a lot of the ones online wish they weren't into this and chicken out after a few interactions and maybe try to stick with finding a "normal" relationship.