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I HATE feabie, they banned ME for RECEIVING a raoe threat. They clearly hate women on there, absolute incels, i know most women don't use ff or feabie as they are not safe sites for us. Where is the feedism community actually? On tumblr?

I feel ya. I got perma banned for making a pro Palestine post. Feabie is absolute garbage. Only other places I can think of are like curvage which is literally just for models to sell their stuff and then woo plus which is overrun with scammers and sucks in general cause of the stupid pageant money scam. Someone with some computer science skills really could take off by making a new site or app that has all the features and UI you'd expect in a modern service for social media and messaging or whatever.

Same as above. Besides FF, there's Curvage (but it's mostly a shop, with a rudimentary forum) and Tumblr, but not much happens there anymore.

I'm currently on a temporary ban from Feabie for telling off some censorious prick in the wrong format. If I had done it a slightly different way, it would have been fine; someone did that to me and I reported it and nothing happened. So I caught a seven-day for not being an attorney at lol.

It really sucks, because it came outta nowhere and I had two good conversations going, and now I can't contact either of them whatsoever. I think I'm just going to give them my phone number or an email or something when I'm unbanned, and ignore that place. I also think that they'll be catching strays in the smut I write.

Banned for a pro-Palestine post? That's insane. Who would Feabie have been rooting for had it been around in 1943, exactly? Some deeds are just too foul not to oppose with all one's heart and soul, and history will look back and remember all those who didn't.

I'd like to say that after a couple weeks here, I like Fantasy Feeder a lot so far, but there's just not a lot of activity. I used to run message boards back in the day, and clustering more conversations together in fewer forums seems to help drive activity somewhat. I think Feabie has the activity it does because everyone is just screaming into a single void. Said void can be filtered, sure. But global is the default, so whenever anything happens, everyone sees it, so there's more activity.

Yeah exactly. It was something along the lines of like "Israel is commiting actual genocide against innocent people" which isn't even remotely controversial that's just a true statement. And I had a few good conversations going too. Yeah, grokio/feabie devs are disgusting people. And normally I refrain from getting into politics and morality on sites like this cause I realize no one really wants to see it but you have to call out actual evil when you see it.
The only thing feabie has is it's way easier to talk to and connect with people and it has more user activity. If fantasy feeder overhauled it's site to a more user friendly one, it's probably get way more activity but for now it's permanently stuck with a web interface from 2012 or whatever which sucks. Not to mention the daily messaging limit is absolutely stupid, there's no reason for that in the current year except for just taking money from desperate dudes and scammers messaging everyone

Say it again king

Thank you all for replying, i knew i couldn't be the only one to be constantly bullied by feabie admin. I even emailed them to explain what happened, politely, they extended my ban by 2 months.
Once i'm allowed back i will post to free palestine myself. Fuck feabie.
Imma make a tumblr, thankfully i still have deviantart.
I do miss all the people i was in contact with too.
I hate dictatorships like feabie and north korea.

Incel is a not a derogatory slur for women to use on men that they don’t like, or misogynists. In a kink space that understands queer or alt however you want frame it, sexuality, on an intimate level I find inappropriate.

Don’t get me wrong there are incels who hate women, but just calling bigots generally incels otherizes and removes agency from the bigot, as they are less than human — to large portions of people who use the slur.

In reality it just means someone who is involuntary celibate, which if you really consider it, there are a lot of. People aren’t having as much sex if you look at the data.

I’m sorry you experience bigotry and it goes on checked and you get the consequences of there actions.

I don’t use feabie because everyone takes themselves very seriously on there and the amount of people who use it as a place to air their grievances bothers me. Tumblr is pretty good!

This guy self reporting

And what’s the self-report? That I don’t like that people use derogatory bigoted language towards people who don’t have sex? Like look around you really think all the people on here are sexually active? Half the people on here struggle with relationships/meaningfull connections yet I’m the bad guy for saying “maybe don’t say that word as a slur”

You can honestly shove your condecention where the sun don’t shine, little anon cartoon drawing.