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Have you noticed this?

As a hypnotist who helps people find themselves through fantasy fulfillment, I've seen a good number of people come to Me convinced they were just a feeder (I've even had a person come to Me as an out-and-out fatphobe), and over time they discover (without My pushing, obviously), that beneath it all, they really just... want to be "that fat woman" *themselves*.

Basically, just asking: Have you noticed this? Is it just Me because I'm working on the transformation with them to begin with so it's skewed?

What are your thoughts on feeders who discover that they're actually gender-queered feedees themselves?

I can’t say that it’s super common. I think it’s diminishing returns that brings feeder men to being feedees, but there’s something that evolves in us. I started out being a feedee but overtime I developed an appreciation for plus size women, it wasn’t there before.

I do suspect that a lot of feedees who have to stop gaining for their health end up becoming feeders, to have an outlet for it. And a lot of people fascinated by fat who are afraid to become fat themselves start out as feeders, and then gradually become feedees as they're around the lifestyle more.

Insofar as gender applies, I think it's just that in our society, the majority of feeders are male and the majority of feedees are female. I would guess that that's a social construct that varies between times and places, though.