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I am kinda exploring my kink for weight gain quite a while now and kinda come to the conclusion, that building a Partnership From the scratch as a bigger person is pure luck (so an extremly low chance). The Main thing I got from gaining so far is limited activities in sports/ training, less social events with (former) friends and probably less health. The more I realize that the main thing i got so far is getting lonlier the more I want to get Back to healthy/ athletic because being lonely just straight up sucks and in my opinion no ( fictional ) sexual desire/ own body preference can be strong enough to beat a lingering lonlieness. That even led to depression and less Motivation to keep up with advances in life and feels like up to five years of my life had zero evolving of character and personality (or even worse more a decline of both). Does anybody ever felt they are mentally sick instead of just having uncommon beliefs because this preference is so rare that it really feels something is utterly wrong with you? For me that impression is getting more evident with every month going by without any real improvements in getting close to a real life relationship, which is based on normal behaviour/ ideas/ values + me being bigger. I am pretty sure I cant be the only one making this rather sad experience, right?

I'm starting to realize that I was incredibly lucky to be a feedist IRL first, and only come to the online community for it later.

So here's my advice for living out this lifestyle, cobbled together from what I did accidentally IRL that worked. Be about 50 to 100 pounds chubbier than average - enough to attract women that like big guys, but not so big that you have difficulty living a normal life. Most women (not all, but most) that like big guys are bound to be somewhat chubby themselves, because in lieu of anyone else to fatten up, they'll do it to themselves.

Then, once you find one, talk over your desires and figure out which of you wants to be the bigger one.

Congratulations, you are now an IRL feedist. You don't have to buy groceries for strangers. You don't have to hear weird people talking about putting things in your belly button in your DMs. You don't have to be so suffocatingly alone.

Most people who are into feedism don't even know the word exists. This isn't as impossible as you think it is. I was approached multiple times in multiple ways by women who were trying to talk about the subject, around the subject, without even knowing the word. Just take your game IRL and see what happens.