Extreme obesity

Thank you, lol. I meet my husband on feabie years ago. I got him to admit to me he wanted me house bound sense we started talking and that he wants us to try for immobile atleast some day. Or atleast till I give up walking and maybe use a scooter someday.Thatd likely be at not that big of weight because Ive always wanted to be to fat to lift myself and once that happens walking will just go other then to the bathroom. We both are working on trying to get promotions at work and keep something thats work from home. That way I can atlease work till I cant lift my arms and fill the bed. We would need to put on an addion to the house to fit me any way. Double doors cause I'd love to atleast be rolled to the sofa at times. Which is another reason for mirrors cause if my neck keeps getting thicker. I love thinking one day I wont be able to see much past my fat mond of a body in my direct vision other then the tv, him, my animals and books. Still that way I can examin what fits in the mirror atleast. Plus double doors to the yard so I can still float in The pool and the door so the dont have to rip the wall down to get me out of the house one day if need. Lol or he can roll me out to get some sun.. It will be a while so we will see but I hope for it onday. We've been padding me more to see size wise how I handle it. I sleep in it last night when ever I want and I'll tell you what I never felt more natural in my life. Filling the sofa and or bed unablde to move my self felt ment to be. But no mater my growth if I get over 350 reno has to happen the stairs will be a no and we need another densent size bathroom that wont feel so anoying to us. Plus, I want a deeper wider tub so I can fit it Atleast for a while. 250 is pur next main goal then 300 till we sort stuff then I agrref to pile it on.

A note from my padding adventure from my gainer post.
I padded and filled the sofa and man that was a dream come true too. It fel so natural and wonderful I sleep that way. Unable to even move my self and even the weight of the padding on me felt so real. Like I was ment to be this size.
We even had a little fatasy fantasy play. I woke up enjoying my blobish nature unable to reach much anything. I accepted my mass and size I told myself bloating a bit and feeling everything move it pulled my legs and arrms in a bit. So it was just my hands uncovered that was gold it self. I ended up passing out waking up and so I relaxed into it again I felt things move my hands where covered and I felt the pillow roll. move closer to my face. I took a breath acepting my fait and instead my head sunk in like a blue berry pillow rolls all round my head. Like that fan art ypu see online of the girls so fat their rolls and their heads sunk in. I loved my fat filling my sight. Expanding again to where I just had a slit of fat to peak throught man that was bliss. My husband and I woke up abit later he got to enjoy my mattress body. He kisses me between the rolls and was like hun I know you want to feel it to completely cosume you my blueberry. He wanted me to beg for it. He helped the roll move over my face consuming me fully and fuck. Lol I came up for air but fuck.

That was a great time in my life when my fiancee got to the point of being 847 pounds when I met her she was about 420 pounds and in the 7 years we were together to watch her grow into the huge beautiful queen that she was there was no better time in my life than that moment I spent with her it was truly amazing to see her get huge especially when most of her weight gladly went to her tummy I miss her so much she died complications of weight loss surgery I remember she didn't want to get it but wanting to fulfill the wishes of her dying mother she did it and I lost her

in college i dated a woman that would eventually end up on my 600lb life. She was in a time of extreme depression. She had been through a great deal in life. molestation losing her new born baby. It had got to the point she had given up on life. During my experiences with people who reach extreme obesity there seems to be a recuring theme of trauma and abuse (some not all). Well we eventually stopped speaking as often. She had gotten out of her rut and was doing all she could to get her life back on track. She eventually ended up on my 600lb life. She asked me to be her BF on the show. I couldn`t. She died during the filming.

Death feederism is something I've seen in people who seek more in fantasy. The reality is that reaching that point is no longer satisfying. I like the idea of being so fat that I can't fit in a bed and being cleaned and fed every day, but only as a fantasy.

Just thought I'd put out another invite for my Discord server centered around feederism
discord.gg/7eK5jbj2Hs
Need more active people lol

I think part of what turns us on about it is what's hot about a lot of this. Its the things like giving into temptation, submission, loss of power, being greedy, the dark, hot feelings you get as you take another bite (temptation) knowing that you shouldn't (greedy), that you're eating yourself into an early grave yet you can't stop (submission, loss of power). If you think about it, its similar to a lot of taboo kinks, that are bad for you but people enjoy, like choking or masochism.

My husband has death feedist fantasies where I fatten him up til his heart give out, but I know he doesn't want to die. Like I don't think people who like to get choked want to die, they like the complicated horny feelings they get by 'playing with fire'.

For me personally, it also ties back into things I like-like sub/dom play and cuckolding and humiliation. I mix all those up with feedist kink play and it's been a blast. Afterall a deathfeedist are usually weak willed piggies 🤭 they give in too easily to temptation, they are softening themselves up into helpless-out of shape-butterballs. And it's more fun to dom someone who is already aware of how powerless they are😈

I think you brought it to the point quite nicely. I totally agree.

incredible thread, lots of insightful posts. wow. im amazed i was able to find something so kinky, so dark so fast. dont get me wrong though, im delighted!

i absolutely love the idea of being a sadistic caretaker for a deathfat. i would keep him or her just barely within the realm of their comfort level - would they want to still go to work, or wfh? what kind of mobility aids do they need? do they need my help bathing? what kind of sex positions are we limited to? ohhh, and that delicious full belly after i feed them a big luxurious meal, with appetizers, sides, desserts, something over the top, all their yummy favorites like always, because that's how i show my love. oh my god, my heart is racing. love love love this.

edit: a typo

I would love to gain as much weight as a feeder wants. I would love the idea of a weight gain contract giving control of my weight and diet to a feeder