Fat experiences

How do you deal with the fact that your penis shrinks as you gain weight? Do you still feel like a man, or has something changed in your sexuality? And how do female feeders or male feeders view this? Share your experiences and opinions.

I definitely have an interest in this, having interacted with quite a few amab feedees who discover they're genderqueer or trans.

I can't speak to it as relating to Me personally, but I'm curious what other people might have to say in this thread.

I think gaining a bunch of weight as a guy is an inherently emasculating thing to begin with, that's at least how I see it. And yeah you see a lot of guys who do gain a lot of weight and don't already have a strong male identity fall into that whole thing because of that.

Literally, fat tissue makes you more girly. It produces estrogen, thus promoting the feminization of your body. Softer skin, boobs, wider hips, less muscle, less desire of fighting.

So, when fat enough, a male body looks more girly.

Yall are such eggs

Honestly it was a side effect of gaining weight i never thourght about, before it happened to me.
My penis is pretty much completely buried now and useless.
I have huge tits now, and wide hips and a big ass.
Im still a man but i feel like my fat makes me look more like a girl.
At the same time im not able to have intercource with a woman any more because my penis is so small and buried.
That kinda sucks but is also hot to me 😅

You can totally see that this happens. Scientific words such as testosterone and eostrogen aside since ordinary people are not measuring those, you can see the physical feminisation.

You could say it's wrong or you could say it's an adaptation. No need to go and hunt wild bore with a spear if you're getting plenty of nutrition playing video games and eating pizza. Getting into evolutionary theory here perhaps.

I ask the same question from the opposite side of things, I only realised I was into men when they become fat and more feminine looking, exactly as you say, boobs, wide hips, burried ineffective member.

GFYS im queer and bi not an egg, bigoted erasure minded person

So far it has not shrunk. Do you mean the fat pad is encroaching? Because fat pads are soft and even though it’s covering an inch or so. It has not gotten in the way of making love with my 340 pound partner.

Not even a little. Pounding gets all the inches hidden, the fat pad is just cushion for the impacts. Maybe once it encroaches more, but I’m not at all interested in my penis being buried and useless because it’s a point of pride in my life, what I’ve been able to do with it. Even now, struggling and panting with my belly in the way i can still make total use of it.

It might actually be the only thing that makes me back off from gaining if it gets bad enough, but we’ll see