Fat experiences

woooooow the misogyny, homophobia, fatphobia and just general blatant disregard for facts in this thread are off the charts

Ikr someone just called everyone eggs, this site needs moderators

Let's not shove our opinions about gender and sexuality on other people when they don't invite it, maybe?

I absolutely am all about genderqueering etc, but I cringe when someone calls other people eggs or the like without them inviting it.

If you want to quietly muse about how they might be unaware they're trans, do that to yourself.

Speaking as someone who has been upset at being called an egg *while I am 100% aware that I am genderqueer*.

LGBT+ labels are delicate things, and people can explore their gender without being an "egg" or "trans" or etc etc

I’m just sayin, there’s def a masculine way to get fat. Like hello, most of the weight being in the midsection, moobs big enough to look kind of like swelled up pecs but not big enough to look like breasts, slightly thicc thighs, body hair everywhere??

lol, i didn't know what this meant.

i am old, sorry, lol, my slang is vintage.

my partner, who is both trans and more than a decade younger than me (but still probably old from urchie's point of view) explained it to me.,

we both thought it was funny, not offensive.

it seemed to read the room pretty well, and wasn't directed at anyone in particular.

I get what you’re saying but as a straight guy who got fat because I was depressed for not feeling manly enough it’s not great to see that lmao. Dw, I’m going to the gym and stuff now and that’s helping with that feeling but that was my experience with it.

Maybe. But Fatness is so androgynous for certain type of people, and for me, when I was slightly fatter, it gave me enough moobs and hips to pass as a girl multiple times. I hope regaining the weight and repeat it

Yall please it was a joke my lord

Completely agree! Also: muscle chubs, dirty bulking, people who have a lot of muscle as well as fat, former athletes who maintain strength despite putting on fat and as a result have dense, solid mass to them and remain active and powerful. Simply having a bigger size and weight could be considered masculine, imo

Jokes are supposed to be funny, i don’t care who wasn’t offended it’s like if I went to a gay person and said “youre actually just trans”. Not a joke.