Fat experiences

Yall please it was a joke my lord

Completely agree! Also: muscle chubs, dirty bulking, people who have a lot of muscle as well as fat, former athletes who maintain strength despite putting on fat and as a result have dense, solid mass to them and remain active and powerful. Simply having a bigger size and weight could be considered masculine, imo

Jokes are supposed to be funny, i don’t care who wasn’t offended it’s like if I went to a gay person and said “youre actually just trans”. Not a joke.

I have no reason to excuse it and your advice is dismissive. Just don’t call people eggs uninvited is the solution.

This gotta be ragebait

ironic stance given your user name.

i got the joke. i thought it was funny. you didn't like the joke. that's fine too. If urchie said what you said, no, it's not funny. but they way they said it was funny.

what they said was not meant to demean, it was not said to dismiss anyone. it was not said from a position of power. it was not hurtful. it was not even directed at anyone in particular, they didn't call any single person a name. they said it to "the room."

it's even on topic, the more i think about it. we have two stances in this thread: people saying "i think fat people are more feminine, or become more femme-like as they gain," and the other side saying, "no, not true, fat can be masculine too."

you mentioned you have struggled with this, and you are working on getting to a better place by working out, which is great. kudos for you. but you may also want to more carefully examine why you feel compelled to assert your masculinity. i don't know you, but i detect your discomfort with feminine side.

i speak from experience. i spent my teens/20s as a straight man. being called gay was a perjorative term. later in my 20s i become bi. now in my 40s i am with a trans partner, and gender play is a thing. it's a journey, and it's not done yet! but i can look back at how i thought, how i saw myself and others 25 years ago, and i see how much was just me - not anyone else.

and if this discussion topic (it's a common one here on ff) is triggering, i suggest just avoiding it. if you don't like it or agree with it, i understand. if you're offended at the mention of an egg, not even specifically directed at you, fine - sometimes it's ok to be offended. but i don't think urchie was being offensive. there's a difference.

i am tending to agree with urchie on this one.

What the fuck kind of psycho babel nonsense is this horseshit. “You’re actually just feminine and you’re just scared” no, I understand what the fuck the endocrine system is.

Gender ideology and the trans issue had made people believe anyone can be whatever they want it is just a choice anyone is trans. This isn’t the case. This is why people fight trans nonsense. It turned from accepting people who had no choice into everyone is a purple dinosaur.

you lost me - who has no choice, and who is the dinosaur???

people are biologically male or female, people are not born into “wrong” bodies. Theres just people with psychosexual trauma and or hormone imbalances, which are transgender individuals who don’t have a choice.

The gender ideologues are the ones who believe anyone can be whatever they want there’s no distinction between male and females, hence everyone is “purple dinosaur”

I have nothing but respect for everyone, but this is fetish to some people her, it’s called sissy hypno. And I can’t help to push back on it, not everyone is into that. Every fat man every male feedeee is not secretly a woman, that is psycho babble nonsense

thanks for clarifying. not sure i agree with everything that you said, but that's fine. i am not schooled in psychology, biology, etc. so i am definitely not an expert.



i agree with you - not every male feedee. by far. in fact, they are probably in the minority.

however, in kink space (which i am very experienced in) there is a big overlap on the venn diagram of those with the male feedee/gainer kink and a feminization kink. hence why this topic is re-initiated by someone new every two months.

i don't know why anyone has to "push back" on anything? it's like the people who decry death feedists... it's their kink. if you don't like it (it's certainly not my thing), don't participate. but let them do what they like if they're consenting adults.