Fat experiences

thanks for clarifying. not sure i agree with everything that you said, but that's fine. i am not schooled in psychology, biology, etc. so i am definitely not an expert.



i agree with you - not every male feedee. by far. in fact, they are probably in the minority.

however, in kink space (which i am very experienced in) there is a big overlap on the venn diagram of those with the male feedee/gainer kink and a feminization kink. hence why this topic is re-initiated by someone new every two months.

i don't know why anyone has to "push back" on anything? it's like the people who decry death feedists... it's their kink. if you don't like it (it's certainly not my thing), don't participate. but let them do what they like if they're consenting adults.

thanks for clarifying. not sure i agree with everything that you said, but that's fine. i am not schooled in psychology, biology, etc. so i am definitely not an expert.



Agreed entirely. Pursuit of sexual gratification is allowed to involve fantasy, metaphor, symbolism and representation.

I’m not entirely sure why, in this thread, suddenly people are requiring Everything to Comport With Objective Reality.

It’s interesting. I struggle with this question. I used to play football but I love femme bodies and I like the feminizing effect gaining has on me.

On the other hand I also like being strong and having a masculine presence. The only way I can think of a balance is to work out and gain fat plus muscle.

Knowing I might never be conventionally attractive nor able to attract a woman who is into that dualism. It’s just so rare to find a girl who actually likes a chubby guy in real life.

That being said. I try to just make myself happy with my body. Indulge in kinks where I appreciate a variety of body types and fulfill myself sexually and emotionally.

As long as I don’t lose so much strength I can’t defend myself or get so out of shape I can’t escape danger and can please a woman with my sexual organ then I still feel like a man.

Even if I’m growing out of my bra , my ass is too fat for my panties and the chair is too narrow for my hips

The balance is interesting.

Oh I love the transphobia in here very nice touch

And where has Munchies gone? Her self-satisfied, know-it-all contributions really would have made this particular thread a cracker.

thanks for clarifying. not sure i agree with everything that you said, but that's fine. i am not schooled in psychology, biology, etc. so i am definitely not an expert.



I don’t like when people project their ideas and fetishes on me. Just like anyone else does. If you have a forced fem fetish that’s on you not every fat man, and when people make dogshit statements like “fat men have more estrogen” like bro just because you have genetic or hormone imbalances doesn’t mean the rest of fat men do. It’s just like anything else

There comes a point when you gain so much weight, and depending on your proportions and body type, you no longer look very different from an obese woman, especially if you develop a super fat fupa and large moobs. This is happening to me, but I feel great about it.

This is just factually wrong. Severe obesity is strongly associated with elevated estrogen levels and decreased testosterone, which potentially leads to various health issues and significantly increases the odds of developing breast tissue.

Studies that show this:

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5798797/

frontiersin.org/journals/endocrinology/articles/10.3389/fendo.2020.00277/full

ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK279105/

Never said it couldn’t or doesn’t, which I explained — unless there is hormonal disorders. It’s not a 1:1 causation, no one has ever said John Goodman was feminized. This is projection

Your words: "every man and woman has the correct amount of estrogen and testosterone regardless of weight"

That statement is simply impossible because no man can have normal testosterone and estrogen levels if they're BMI 50 with obesity.

That's all I'm refuting.

imo it also has nothing to do with whether or not people consider John Goodman "feminized"