Dating/Friendships

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Bbbccc   South Africa
Joined 5 years
I'm not new to the site but am new to posting in the forum. I adore big ladies with bigger appetites. I enjoy chatting, encouraging, praising and playfully teasing bbws and ssbbws.
But that seems to be a dying art, do people still talk regularly and make friendships on here anymore?

Being based in Johannesburg, South Africa means the feederism community is very small, so going online is the only way to connect and discuss this world.

With all that being said, feel free to reach out if you like to actually chat and make friends in this community.

Have a great day everyone smiley
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Kbfawksy13   United States
Joined 2 months
The fetish in general seems to just heavily lean male, and overwhelmingly lean feedee.

As a lesbian feedee, its pretty discouraging.
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Torchcacti   United States
Joined 3 years
Kbfawksy13:
The fetish in general seems to just heavily lean male, and overwhelmingly lean feedee.

As a lesbian feedee, its pretty discouraging.


It’s pretty discouraging for all of us tbh. For the same reasons you describe.
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MrClever   United States
Joined 1 year
Honestly, it seems as though most of the world is experiencing this, fetish or not. Even 'normal' dating apps feel like desolate, lonely places.
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Urchie   United States
Joined 1 year
MrClever:
Honestly, it seems as though most of the world is experiencing this, fetish or not. Even 'normal' dating apps feel like desolate, lonely places.


Yea I feel this too tbh
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Weetabix   United Kingdom
Joined 11 years
Kbfawksy13:
The fetish in general seems to just heavily lean male, and overwhelmingly lean feedee.

As a lesbian feedee, its pretty discouraging.


Men are Feeders and Women are Feedees. When a man is a Feedee he is going to find it hard to find a woman who is a Feedee. I would expect you would also find it hard to find a woman who is a Feeder. It is possible and 2026 may very well be when it happens.
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Feedergotfat   United States
Joined 10 years
This community, not FF specifically but the belly community has really changed over the past few years. I feel like a huge majority of people just want money now. It used to be that people who had similar kinks would become friends or more than friends. I'm not talking about getting belly content for free but having others to chat with and enjoy kink related things. It's become very discouraging. I'm glad I still have a couple of female friends in this community going back 15 years but I have no recent ones. I know a lot of you dont have any that sucks whether you're a straight or bi male or lesbian. Hopefully that changes
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Weetabix   United Kingdom
Joined 11 years
Feedergotfat:
This community, not FF specifically but the belly community has really changed over the past few years. I feel like a huge majority of people just want money now. It used to be that people who had similar kinks would become friends or more than friends. I'm not talking about getting belly content for free but having others to chat with and enjoy kink related things. It's become very discouraging. I'm glad I still have a couple of female friends in this community going back 15 years but I have no recent ones. I know a lot of you dont have any that sucks whether you're a straight or bi male or lesbian. Hopefully that changes


I did make a couple of female friends here a couple of years ago. I introduced myself by sending them meal money via PayPal. They were quite friendly whilst it seemed I would send them money. However there was only mild interest when I suggested a date and that would never actually happen. As much as I would like to disagree with you in my experience they are wanting money.
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MrClever   United States
Joined 1 year
Feedergotfat:
This community, not FF specifically but the belly community has really changed over the past few years. I feel like a huge majority of people just want money now. It used to be that people who had similar kinks would become friends or more than friends. I'm not talking about getting belly content for free but having others to chat with and enjoy kink related things. It's become very discouraging. I'm glad I still have a couple of female friends in this community going back 15 years but I have no recent ones. I know a lot of you dont have any that sucks whether you're a straight or bi male or lesbian. Hopefully that changes

Weetabix:
I did make a couple of female friends here a couple of years ago. I introduced myself by sending them meal money via PayPal. They were quite friendly whilst it seemed I would send them money. However there was only mild interest when I suggested a date and that would never actually happen. As much as I would like to disagree with you in my experience they are wanting money.


This was the entirety of my experience on Feabie. A lot of interest in money and immediate erotic chat, zero in getting to know each other as people.

By the way, well met sir, assuming you're the Weetabix of yore. I remember hearing of you when I was but a lad lurking about the community back in the 2000s.
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Weetabix   United Kingdom
Joined 11 years

Weetabix:
I did make a couple of female friends here a couple of years ago. I introduced myself by sending them meal money via PayPal. They were quite friendly whilst it seemed I would send them money. However there was only mild interest when I suggested a date and that would never actually happen. As much as I would like to disagree with you in my experience they are wanting money.

MrClever:
This was the entirety of my experience on Feabie. A lot of interest in money and immediate erotic chat, zero in getting to know each other as people.

By the way, well met sir, assuming you're the Weetabix of yore. I remember hearing of you when I was but a lad lurking about the community back in the 2000s.


Yes that's me. You probably visited my website back in the day. You may have know SQMS, my late wife.

I was on Match.com for a year thinking that the problem was FF. Same thing, people just want validation that they are attractive, not really interested in meeting.

It is vital to actually meet people but starting off a relationship online it will remain online. Back in 2000 I met SQMS in Kelli Girl's Bulge Chat but we never translated that to the physical world. Instead I chatted up a fat girl at work and it later transpired we had met online and that she was that Feedee.

Things have not improved in 25 years unfortunately. This goes pretty much for everything. Music, cars, relationships, all were best in the 1990's. It's like my favourite movie, The Matrix. Agent Smith says they based the Matrix on 1999.
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