Fattening others

I've started dating recently, and over the past five months, my boyfriend has gradually gained some weight about 2.2 lbs per month. He's mentioned it with some concern, but I actually find it charming. I like making sure he always has snacks and feels comforted, especially since he's been under a lot of stress lately. After a few days apart, I noticed his belly looks a bit rounder. I just want to support him and make sure he feels loved and well-fed even if that means his clothes start to feel a little tighter.

Wow 1kg per month You are feeding he very well, good job. Feeding is an act of love

Couldn’t agree more

2.2 lbs a month is about 24.4 lbs a year. Not bad. But I would have a conversation with him about it - see where he stands. Just because he's gaining and you like it doesn't mean he's happy with the situation.

Speaking from my own experience... Please have a conversation with him about his weight gain before you proceed any further. You don't have to tell him about your kink or that you made him gain on purpose. Just test the waters carefully how he's been feeling about it in general and about his fears and concerns.

I was also responsible for my boyfriend's weight gain back then (it was unconsciously at that time though). He got quite fat and I was very pleased with it but he was so damn miserable. He was suffering and that broke my heart.... Nowadays I would only act on my fantasies if the other person genuinely wants to gain weight. So please, I totally understand your desire but keep in mind that he should have a choice, too. It's his body after all....

Woman makes a post about her boyfriend.

Man asks if she is single.

It's giving "I understand you only have one child, but how many baby daddies do you have?"

Yes, this is so conscientious! But if he is a feedee too or just enjoy, go on.😊

I see this post is 6 months old so.. any more weight?

My gf did the same to me. I'm sure she didn't mean to, she just want to cook me nice dinners and bake something good. I was the one eating with gusto and complimenting her for her skills.. which she loved and she felt motivated to keep up.

When I told her I had gained 20 pounds she laughed and said "OMG honey are you serious, that's a lot!" I told her I thought she was just too good a cook and she immediately was pleased and proud. She kinda forgot I was getting fatter and she didn't cook or bake any less.. if I overate and ended up with a bloated belly on the sofa she would just giggle and say something like "oh it looks like you've enjoyed dinner! I'm glad you did!"

The fact is that she's not a feeder or a fat admirer. She's just very "nurturing" and I don't think she loves the extra pounds I've put on (30+) per se, she loves it because it's a proof of my appreciation for her being so good to me.

Does it make sense?