Just wondering if anyone else here has a preference for soft, gentle, or sensual domination? No barked orders or harsh words, just gentle coercion and persuasion that gets you to do everything the dominant wants...
OldGrayBear: Just wondering if anyone else here has a preference for soft, gentle, or sensual domination? No barked orders or harsh words, just gentle coercion and persuasion that gets you to do everything the dominant wants...
oh yeah, this is the most common way my partner exerts her dominance over me... first a suggestion, an ask, a little tease. soft/light dom is very sexy!
very often it will escalate, when we're together, but usually it starts off very gentle and light.
I actually thought until recently I wanted a harsher dynamic but I think as I’ve accepted this part of me more and realised I’m still learning what makes me tick after all this time, a softer dynamic is much more fulfilling
OldGrayBear: Just wondering if anyone else here has a preference for soft, gentle, or sensual domination? No barked orders or harsh words, just gentle coercion and persuasion that gets you to do everything the dominant wants...
Its not gentle per se (by some people's standards), but my partner simply lying on top of me (them being the heavier one of course) is what gets me. The weight gives safety, you know?