Fat experiences

I'm really keen on growing beyond 400lbs (lesbian mutual gainer and feedee). What I really want to know is - especially for people who started small - what changes did you notice as you grew bigger?

Stuff in body, mindset and lust. Detail is good.

That’s an amazing goal and honestly, hitting 400 lbs is where the magic really happens. Coming from being a skinny guy my whole life, the biggest change I've noticed is the texture of my own body. You go from feeling bones and muscle to this thick, heavy layer of what I call "the dough."

Everything starts to feel softer and deeper. Your thighs start to rub together constantly, and you actually start to feel the pull of gravity on your belly. It’s not just sitting there anymore; it’s hanging and swinging, and you feel the literal weight of your progress every time you move.

When I was thin, I ate because I had to, but now I crave that stuffed, overfilled feeling. You stop caring about being fit and start obsessing over volume. Every new roll or soft spot feels like a trophy you've earned. As for the lust side of it, it becomes much more primal.

There’s something so intense about watching yourself and your partner grow, seeing the clothes get tighter and the breathing get a bit heavier. The softer and less "functional" you become, the more the turn-on grows. It’s a total transformation of how you exist in the world, and feeling that extra mass every day is just incredible.

Enjoy every single pound of it.

That sounds lush!

I'm already starting to have my thighs rub together, but that's about it.

For me, I really did not notice much at first while gaining weight—at least not until I was clearly overweight. That was when it started to feel real. The first changes I noticed were extra fat in my chest area and having to move up a jean size, which made it obvious my body was changing.

As I kept gaining and got to around 195 pounds, the changes became much more noticeable. I needed another larger jean size, my thighs started touching regularly, and I could feel more softness in my arms, especially underneath. At that point, it was no longer just seeing the scale move—it was feeling my body change in everyday ways.

Now that I have passed 200 pounds and am getting close to the obese range, everything feels different. My thighs are always touching, there are rolls at the sides of my stomach, and my belly is starting to get in the way more than before. I am also noticing it in my shirts now—most of them are becoming tight, and it is clear I will have to move up a size soon. Clothes in general are fitting very differently, and that makes the weight gain impossible to ignore.

What is interesting is that my original goal was simply to reach 200 pounds. Now that I have passed it, instead of feeling finished, I find myself wanting more—and honestly, I think a lot more. Having been married to a bigger woman for many years, I sometimes wonder if I could one day even exceed her weight.