Extreme obesity

incredible thread, lots of insightful posts. wow. im amazed i was able to find something so kinky, so dark so fast. dont get me wrong though, im delighted!

i absolutely love the idea of being a sadistic caretaker for a deathfat. i would keep him or her just barely within the realm of their comfort level - would they want to still go to work, or wfh? what kind of mobility aids do they need? do they need my help bathing? what kind of sex positions are we limited to? ohhh, and that delicious full belly after i feed them a big luxurious meal, with appetizers, sides, desserts, something over the top, all their yummy favorites like always, because that's how i show my love. oh my god, my heart is racing. love love love this.

edit: a typo

I would love to gain as much weight as a feeder wants. I would love the idea of a weight gain contract giving control of my weight and diet to a feeder

Death feedism definitely can be a fun fantasy but a serious reality. Only part take when both sides know the risks vs rewards, and are fully planned out.

I agree

Kita seconds this. This is why it has taken her so long to truly accept what she wants for herself.

I would want to have a feeding contract I wanna see how big I can get.

i've always dreamt of being fattened to death

Agree with so much of what’s been written here. Is it something I’d want to live out irl (or potentially even participate in)??? Honestly, not sure. There is discernment to be done.

BUT — does the idea of being a sadistic, manipulative feeder and exploiting a feedee into gaining hundreds of pounds of fat make me unreasonably horny? Yeah, it does. I love how much of it is helping someone give in to their worst impulses & lose themselves in a the feedist feedback loop — eat, get fat, get effects of being fat, get horny, get hungrier, eat more, etc etc etc. add some emotional manipulation, some sadistic dom/sub dynamics, health issues, and mobility loss? 🥵

... I still really struggle with the reality of what turns me on lol. I'm not into extreme obesity or health problems like much of this thread. In contrast, I have been very fit my whole life, athlete, personal trainer, the whole nine yards.

I don't like gore, vore, pain, or death, at all...
But I do like the feeling of absolute control and submission that comes with fattening someone up... Of breaking their will... Maybe they even resist, at first? I love the evil dynamics of the witch & Gretel (sorry fellas, I'm very straight).

I think the dark/death theme just adds an extra edge to the power dynamics. The act of submitting your body even to the possibility of the darkest of motives. I know it's some sort of psychological power kink ofc.

And yet I can't seem to fully accept this within myself, let alone hope to meet someone in real life who shares such taboo secrets behind an otherwise very "normal" social and work life.

You can be aroused by all of that, even want it in a sense, and not act on it. It’s not reflective of your moral character to be into this stuff. I don’t know how to square the circle of being into very dark stuff like we are, but trying to suppress it within yourself won’t do anything but cause you pain. I’m into death feedism, but I doubt I’ll ever do more than vaguely allude to it in dirty talk. I don’t think I’d actually even want to dabble with it in real life, were I to get the chance. Your kinks don’t define you, friend. I wish you equanimity as you make your peace with this part of yourself 🫂