General

There's a guy on here who'll make an account every once in awhile, view my profile, then delete. It's been happening for several years now, the same person (I'm assuming, since it's the same person in their profile pictures). It's a bit annoying, but I don't engage with it.

For ghosts who DM and then vanish, I just delete it and move on. It's really not worth my time.

I've had someone veiw my account almost every single day for the last 4+ months, who shows up as photo-less, ageless, and clicking on them does nothing. I assume it's a deleted account if that's the case, I'm not entirely sure. The only indicator I get at all is the flag icon for Fiji.

I'm wondering if anyone else has gotten this for as long as I have? If not, I suspect it's my ex, who I met here, who vanished from my life out of nowhere over the summer. If it is a real person, whoever it is, making a new account 6 times a week is insanity.

I think some would find it strange but I recognize a few profiles over the years I've been here and it's just nice to see that someone is still in the community and doing well.

Sadly, I made this recent friend and discovered he deleted his account. I don't know if I said something that upset him to factor in his account removal. I hope he is doing ok.

I understand why people do this. I've been through periods where I don't log in for ages because of stuff going on irl or just phases of being more drawn to other kinks. But it still is a pity - and there have been so many good stories lost over the years because the writers deleted their accounts!

It requires thick skin or a brain callous. Many fakes, only kidding, flirtations and the such. I've fallen for so many over the years and I am still here, still hoping