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Yeah, at first, I find it strange when I got the empty message from ghost people, who deleted their chat before I could open/view it??? WHAT DID YOU WRITE?? IM CURIOUS GURL 😭, I understand it later in a hard way. When a nice online friend I found here decided to deleted their acc (they told me beforehand) then their message just ... disapear

Make me realize that maybe all of the past empty message have their own reasons for leaving FF. Sad but I have come to accept the fact

I had this happen to me and it's stuck with one new message, but it's gone.

Yep, had that this week, views likes, positive comments, but profile gone. It like they have contact anxiety or something.

So I checked my notifications and like half of them will be someone new Join the site and I'm like how many new people are joining the site. Especially when the forms are usually the same like 50 people At most.

NooOO 😭 I also got a few messages like that. A new messages but the usser already gone/ghosting, so I cant even remember who is this person and what the last conversation we had

There's a guy on here who'll make an account every once in awhile, view my profile, then delete. It's been happening for several years now, the same person (I'm assuming, since it's the same person in their profile pictures). It's a bit annoying, but I don't engage with it.

For ghosts who DM and then vanish, I just delete it and move on. It's really not worth my time.

I've had someone veiw my account almost every single day for the last 4+ months, who shows up as photo-less, ageless, and clicking on them does nothing. I assume it's a deleted account if that's the case, I'm not entirely sure. The only indicator I get at all is the flag icon for Fiji.

I'm wondering if anyone else has gotten this for as long as I have? If not, I suspect it's my ex, who I met here, who vanished from my life out of nowhere over the summer. If it is a real person, whoever it is, making a new account 6 times a week is insanity.

I think some would find it strange but I recognize a few profiles over the years I've been here and it's just nice to see that someone is still in the community and doing well.

I understand why people do this. I've been through periods where I don't log in for ages because of stuff going on irl or just phases of being more drawn to other kinks. But it still is a pity - and there have been so many good stories lost over the years because the writers deleted their accounts!

It requires thick skin or a brain callous. Many fakes, only kidding, flirtations and the such. I've fallen for so many over the years and I am still here, still hoping