Submission and domination

Just wondering if anyone else here has a preference for soft, gentle, or sensual domination? No barked orders or harsh words, just gentle coercion and persuasion that gets you to do everything the dominant wants...

That would be the goal. Having a gentle feeder that wants you to grow so there’s more of you to love and more ways they can show there love.

oh yeah, this is the most common way my partner exerts her dominance over me... first a suggestion, an ask, a little tease. soft/light dom is very sexy!

very often it will escalate, when we're together, but usually it starts off very gentle and light.

Its not gentle per se (by some people's standards), but my partner simply lying on top of me (them being the heavier one of course) is what gets me. The weight gives safety, you know?

As a domme, I actually prefer being more of a sensual/nurturing domme most of the time.

I do enjoy sadism, and using power of both mind and body, don't get me wrong.

But I also have a background of being extremely empathetic and wanting to be a counselor so mommy/soft domming is what I prefer.

However I would say 90% of people who book me for any fetish I deal in tend to want a harsher mistress.

Im just stopping to say it cheers me up when I see people, especially in fat spaces wanting more soft and nurturing dynamics

Well, a harsh play can be fun too, but a gentle (maybe yet strict when inevitable), mommy dommy that takes care of her good boy, praises him, showers him with affection when he is so obedient might be more effective in the long run.