Submission and domination

Look, I'm going to speak from my point of view as a feedee, and I would like someone who has initiative. In other words, that he sets the pace, that he tells you when you're going to eat and when you're not, that (within agreed-upon limits) he makes you feel inferior and controls you while he feeds as he pleases.

To be more specific, I'd like you to ask me exactly what you want to know. But challenges are fine, although sometimes more than a challenge I prefer that my feeder "forces" me or demands that I do something, as if there were no other option. Although I must say that I'm quite radical when it comes to dominance.