How did you overcome your fears and concerns? advice for new feedee

Joined 12 years

In my opinion it's all about taking it slow.

Start with a small gain, see how you feel about it and the way it impacts your life (or doesn't) and go from there.

Much easier to be okay with getting huge when you do it one step at a time.

1 year

How did you overcome your fears and concerns? advice for new feedee

Munchies

Joined 4 years

CrazyCoconut:
Hi All.

When you first decided to start gaining and getting huge, how did you overcome your fears and concerns about getting huge? I'm just starting my gaining journey, hoping to become bedbound and spend the rest of my days eating. I'm struggling with completely letting go due to fears of being so huge, the obvious health issues that come with it, how family and friends and coworkers react to my increasing size. I'm also by myself so I have fears of becoming immobile alone.

How did you overcome those fears when you first started actively gaining? Especially as you got bigger?

Something to keep in mind is planning and reasonable goal setting. You also need to make peace with life happening.

If you're afraid of getting immobile alone, then you need to do two things. The first is figure out how fat are you comfortable getting by yourself. The second is finding a feeder that is enthusiastically supportive and will be your life partner.

Some fears and concerns are worth ignoring like people judging you for gaining weight. However, logistical concerns should be taken seriously and addressed.

1 year

How did you overcome your fears and concerns? advice for new feedee

Chubbydiva

Joined 18 years

For me, I was never fear of becoming fat. When I was 200-lbs, I was like: okay, I’m fat. When I weighed myself at a GNC store, I came in at 227.5-lbs. Now that I’m at 250’ish pounds, I’m more content with being fat.

11 months

How did you overcome your fears and concerns? advice for new feedee

BigBallBellyGirl

Joined 2 years

CrazyCoconut:
Hi All.

When you first decided to start gaining and getting huge, how did you overcome your fears and concerns about getting huge? I'm just starting my gaining journey, hoping to become bedbound and spend the rest of my days eating. I'm struggling with completely letting go due to fears of being so huge, the obvious health issues that come with it, how family and friends and coworkers react to my increasing size. I'm also by myself so I have fears of becoming immobile alone.

How did you overcome those fears when you first started actively gaining? Especially as you got bigger?

Not sure how much you want to gain or how big you want to be. I've always been fat, so in my case, it more a question of whether I wanted to be supersized (which I am). I overcame those concerns by planning for logistical issues. We bought a different vehicle; we took the glass shower doors out of our bathroom; I saved money to buy larger clothes while I was actively gaining. I'm also constantly reevaluating what concessions I'm willing to make and what limitations I'm okay with. I think at the moment, I may have more limitations than I want. They seemed to pile on after 600 pounds. Fortunately, I have a husband who's supportive and helpful if I decide a little weight loss is necessary for me to fully participate in life.

11 months

How did you overcome your fears and concerns? advice for new feedee

MottiF

Joined 9 years

TiredofBeingSkinny:
1. Self-realization: to not care about what other may think. Unless you are not harming someone else; the art of not giving a care is a beautiful thing. Let go and grow.

2. When I was transitioning into becoming a fat person; yeah people made some comments. They know I am athletic by nature. However, a part of me felt as if they wanted to be fat too or let go of something to make themselves happy.

3. After countless times of stepping away from this weight gain fetish, I am getting fat on my own again. Starting over but not completely. It's very lonely but being active in this community helps and continue to do self-fulling hobbies helps as well.

Let go and grow, you'll find some revelations during your journey.

I couldn’t agree more

11 months

How did you overcome your fears and concerns? advice for new feedee

Dolkite

Joined 11 years

This is something that does not come overnight. I spent plenty of time saying "Why? Why? Why?" even though I don't have fantasies of getting enormous, at least by FF standards.

I agree when people say to take it slow. But realize that these desires will not go away, and you are going to eventually need to accept them.

2 months

How did you overcome your fears and concerns? advice for new feedee

PolyTrackk

Joined 1 month

Dolkite:
This is something that does not come overnight. I spent plenty of time saying "Why? Why? Why?" even though I don't have fantasies of getting enormous, at least by FF standards.

I agree when people say to take it slow. But realize that these desires will not go away, PolyTrackand you are going to eventually need to accept them.

Yes, but I'm really worried that if this continues, it will negatively impact the health and quality of life of those affected.

1 month

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How did you overcome your fears and concerns? advice for new feedee

How did you overcome your fears and concerns? advice for new feedee

How did you overcome your fears and concerns? advice for new feedee

How did you overcome your fears and concerns? advice for new feedee

How did you overcome your fears and concerns? advice for new feedee

How did you overcome your fears and concerns? advice for new feedee

How did you overcome your fears and concerns? advice for new feedee